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To chase or be chased?
17/f
I really like this boy. Hes like everything i ever wanted but I feel like he is too hard to sort or get him I suppose. I dont even talk to him. :S
Its just too hard and I can't do it and I think he is too good for me anyway.
Anyway one of his friends who is fun and really nice is chasing me. I have only just started thinking about him more often. Like wondering what it would liek to be with him. I only started thinking like this after I found out he liked me. Yet without a doubt I would love to be with the other boy so much more.
I don't think I have a chance with the first boy I really like and I've got no confidence at all around him, yet around his friend I am confident and he likes me.
So is it better to keep loving the first boy or to give it a chance with his friend, although I might not be as happy and I would still be in love with the other boy
Please help me, I'm confused.
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First off -- how do you know if you're in love with the first boy and that he's everything that you've ever wanted if you've never spoken to him? For all you know you could end up talking to him and getting to know him and then find out that he's not all you built him up to be.
Secondly, I really think you should take a chance with the other boy if you really like him as well, not just because he likes you. Plus if you still like his friend, then what happens if you ever have to hang out with the two of them? That could just be awkward.
But mainly I think you're just in over your head with the whole "in love" thing. You can't be in love with someone you've never spoken to.
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Dear confused,
Your main problem is thinking you are not good e-nuff for the first boy. You lack self esteem. Who knows you may be too good for him. Usally when the boy is hard to get us girls for some reason want him more! I would try and get to know the second boy but only if you are really interested in him (you don't want him to feel the way you do about the first boy) That wouldn't be nice.
take your time and get to know him who knows he may be great for you! Good Luck! Let me know how it works out
Gidgetgirl
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Since you know that you wont have a chance with this boy you really like, i think you should move on, and give the boy who likes you a chance.
i dont see how youre "in love" with the boy you dont really know. You may not be as happy as you think you would with this other boy, but you dont know that yet.
i think you know what to do.
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