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Stop this stuff. help !
right, i'm with this guy
& he's like a bit smaller than me.
everyone takes the mickey outa him, they say hes fat and horrible. but I definatlely don't see that.
Sure, he isn't the buffest guy on this planet, bu the has the sweetest heart and I wouldn't have anyone else.
His best friend lies to him, saying i call him fat and ugly. But he is really good-looking !!
i would never say that.
So please, help.
What should I say to stop all of this ??
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Well...you can't change a guy. They will stay angry and pissed and nothing can change that...sorry! I'm really excited that you see this guy differently than other people. You see who he really is. Looks aren't everything. I understand 100%. People can be cruel! I think just continue dating him because you love him and who he really is. If those people that insult him and tell him he's fat and ugly...well they are missing out on a great guy and people do that. They discriminate someone due to their color, shape, etc. That won't get them far and thats their loss, not yours. You have the most wonderful guy in your heart and that's hard to get. Trust me. Don't lose him and ignore what those nasty people are saying. Your happy with this guy so don't let those people turn you down because then you won't be happy. That will be a loss. You see who this guy who he really is and that's what all matters. IGNORE THEM!
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Remember, relationships aren't relationships if there is no trust! So I think you should remind him about that, and tell him you would NEVER do anything like that, because you really like him, and you would never do anything to hurt him. His friend could possibly be jealous, and so he is trying to ruin your relationship with your bf. DOn't let that happen! Show your boyfriend he is worth the fight. Re-assure your boyfriend, sometimes they do feel insecure, so tell him that you find him good-looking and all that stuff. ;) Tell him you would NEVER want to change anything about him, as he is perfect as he is, and don't forget about telling him what you think about his heart... and that you wouldn't have anyone else!
When he feels that you DO like him the way he is, he'll stand up to his friend, and things will come together! Remind him that YOU are with him RIGHT now, and so you obviously ave string feelings for him! Just re-assure him! Ignore his friend, if you want, say something poerful, like, 'Don't be jealous I'm not with you, so stop trying to break us up, I like him and not you! You had your chance and now, stop being selfish!' Then walk away! These losers aren't worth the time really, they just really sad.
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Aw, they're just being bullies; maybe they're jealous, who knows? I suggest you ignore any trash talk you hear about your bf. Sounds like he's a really nice person. Go with the flow. You can't exactly stop other people from teasing him, but you can absolutely stand up for him. And if that's his best friend..... tell your bf to stop hanging around with him. You seem like a loyal, unbiased person. I know you'll do what's right.
Good luck~
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Maybe his best friend is becoming jealous of the relationship that you two have, and even though he said it was okay in the beginning, he's having second thoughts. You might not be able to do anything to stop what this boy is saying to your guy, but as long as you are sure that your guy knows that you would never say anything like that about him, you two shouldn't let his friend get to you.
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Go up to him and tell him that you would never say anything like that. Then tell him exactly what you told us, what you like about him and how you feel. Be firm and confident when you say this too, so he knows you aren't just trying to be nice.
And if you like him that much, you should also just ask him out!
As for those two friends, tell them to butt out and stop being rude. Make sure they know you're serious too.
Good luck!
-Calli
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Tell your guy exactly how you fell about him.
I dont know if he believes his best friend, but really talk to him about this. Talk about the trust you two have as well.
And pull his best friend aside and ask why he's saying these untrue things to his friend. He may be a little jealous of you two
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