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Gaining back trust.
Okay so I need advice on how to gain someones trust back.
Me and my guy friend [were not dating] had sex like 2 days ago.
&& we were supposed to just keep it to ourselfs but I was extremely excited so I told my best friend about it and well she told her boyfriend who is friends with him and her boyfriend told him..
He confronted me in txt.
he said he wasnt mad just dissapointed.
He also said that he doesnt know if he should trust me.
Also that it will take time to gain that trust but it could happen.
that im a great girl but i have to learn to keep good things to myself.
that i fucked up but he still loves me.
Yeah i just sumed it up because there were like 20 txts but yeah.. what do you think?
Sorry my writing is all over the place. I just dont know what to do.
I want to be trusted again and soon.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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I'd say that females who are friends often share intimate details with each other. That's pretty normal. So what is the reason he wanted you to keep this quiet?
I think just tell him that you learned a lesson as to what you can and cannot tell your friend and it won't happen again. But also try to make him feel good about it. "Hey it was so good the information just slipped out" "If it were bad do you think I'd tell?"
I'd say that if he really loves you, this will pass by quickly. I am sure he already trusts you.
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I give you credit on admitting that you made a mistake. Good for you, seriously, not many people will admit something when their wrong. I would say to explain to him why you were so excited, and that you do understand his point of view, of why hes upset. It may take him a little while to trust you again, but show him that you can be trusted, for instance, if he tells you something, just keep it to yourself, even if he does say you can say something. Tell him more stuff about you, to show him you trust him. Time heals all wounds and in time he will trust you again. I promise. And say sorry to him in person, it shows you are a strong person, and you have great character.
Good luck with everything. Don't stress about it, things will work out for the best, I promise!
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I know you probably thought of it like that so dont hold that against me,butjust for a second imagine how it would feel to be in position.But i can understand you telling your best friend after something as big as that. I think you should explain to him that it was a big thing for you so you just HAD to tell your best friend. Tell him that you are sorry and your friend was the only one you wanted to know. I really hope i helped. Good Luck =) btw please leave me some feedback because i want to know if i helped you in any way =)
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