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Hi! I am only 13 but i have been through alot in my life soooo i know alot for my age. I love to give AND get advice and people say i am really got at them BOTH =). You can ask me questions about ANYTHING and i will do my best to answer them. And remember questions in my inbox get answered FIRST!!!! Also i HATE when people dont leave feedback. I really want to know if i helped,i didnt,or anything in between!!!!! Lots of love, Nay~Nay
Gender: Female
Location: US
Occupation: student
Age: 13
Member Since: June 10, 2008
Answers: 27
Last Update: July 18, 2008
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does limewire cause really bad computer viruses? cuhz im on my laptop and i really dont want it to crash. and on my old computer, when i did virus scans, it said limewire was the most dangerous.
and one more thing, is limewire illegal? cuhz if it is, i dont want to do anything illegal.

-Anonymously (link)
ok,limewire IS legal,but burning cd's off it illegal. Here is how limewire works. People upload music on limewire. After you upload something,all of the music on your computer gets uploaded. So if someone uploads a song on limewire and that person has a virus on there computer,the song they uploaded will contain that virus and if you saved that song your computer will get viruses. I hope this is making since 2 u!!!! I have a laptop and i have limewire on it and i have never got a virus from it,so i think you will be ok!! =) I hope i helped and please leave feedback!!


that says that you hurt me, after i loved you so much i feel torn apart now, and how i dont feel good enough. like you want more than me & what i have to offer.

preferably rock/alternative
but im open to anything really

thanks. (link)
All Around me by Flyleaf. Here are the lyrics.

"All Around Me"

My hands are searching for you
My arms are outstretched towards you
I feel you on my fingertips
My tongue dances behind my lips for you

This fire rising through my being
Burning I'm not used to seeing you

I'm alive, I'm alive

I can feel you all around me
Thickening the air I'm breathing
Holding on to what I'm feeling
Savoring this heart that's healing

My hands float up above me
And you whisper you love me
And I begin to fade
Into our secret place

The music makes me sway
The angels singing say we are alone with you
I am alone and they are too with you

I'm alive, I'm alive

I can feel you all around me
Thickening the air I'm breathing
Holding on to what I'm feeling
Savoring this heart that's healing

And so I cry
The light is white
And I see you

I'm alive, I'm alive, I'm alive

I can feel you all around me
Thickening the air I'm breathing
Holding on to what I'm feeling
Savoring this heart that's healing

Take my hand
I give it to you
Now you own me
All I am
You said you would never leave me
I believe you
I believe

I can feel you all around me
Thickening the air I'm breathing
Holding on to what I'm feeling
Savoring this heart that's healed



Here is a link to hear it.

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=COqhFdHsi6M

HOPE I HELPD!!!!!!!!


17/f
as a baby i drank milk. yes. but as i started to grow older once i was about in 1st grade my body started rejecting milk and water. i'd throw up.. i dont drink water nor milk.. i'm not lactose intolerant either.. ive talked to my doctor but all he says is drink water.. but i cant!!! ive tried but i can't. which is funny because it has no taste or smell but i just cant stand it.. nor milk =/ what do i do?? any advice? (link)
First of all i HATE milk and i dont drink it. So you dont HAVE to drink milk,but i HIGHLY recommend you take vitamin with calcium in them. As for water try drinking naturally flavored water like Dasani or Fruit 2 O. It is just like regular water but taste great!!!!!


To start out, I'm a 16 year old girl. My boyfriend of 1 week is also 16.
He invited me to come to his house tomorrow from 6-10 meaning that I will be eating dinner with him, his parents, and his 18 year old brother. They have not met me yet, and I desperately want to make a good impression. I'm naturally a shy person, and it comes off like I'm just polite but kind of boring. What things should I say/do to make the like me? As many tips as possible please... I'm desperate. Thank you all so much.! (link)
Dont be nervous!!!! Just be casual,and maybe talk to your boyfriend about certain kinds of flowers or candy that is family likes for a house-warming gift. Talk about things like school and plans for the future. Parents like that type of stuff. Also,dont try to hard,it might give them a weird impression. You might also want to dress nice,but casual. Dont go in a fancy dress,but dont go in some rags,lol. I hope i helped,and dont worry i am sure they will love you =) GOOD LUCK!!!


okay so i was dating this guy named joe for about 2 months and like i really really liked him more than anything. when we broke up i was so depressed. but his reasons were stupid. he said i was mean to his friends. we didnt hang out enough. i acted different around my friends. and he thought i was bi? its been about a month since we broke up and we dont talk at all and he has another gurlfriend he is in love with that he has only been dating for like 3 weeks which so happens to be one of my good friends and now we are no longer friends anymore and she wont talk to me. he has said the meanest things to me, he has hurt me so much but i still love him and miss him and i would give anything to be with him again and i dont understand why? i just wish i could get over him cause all the guys i try to talk to just dont add up to him and i cant get over him? (link)
The best way to forget about a guy is move on! But in your situation,when you are trying to move on (talking to other guys) you are to busy thinking about him. Try not to compare these other guys to joe and just focus on THAT particular guy. I understand how hard it is to get over a guy,it takes time and patience. I also understand that you really want to be with him but after all the things he did/said to you he doesnt sound like to good of a boyfriend. I REALLY hope i helped!!!! and just remember its HIS stupid reasons not YOURS!!!! =)


Me and my bestfriend really like each other. But we're not together. What are some songs that desrcribe this situation. Thanks in advace. (link)
Aaliyah - "At The Best You Are Love"
I looked it up. Also here are the lyrics.
Let me know, let me know
Ah - ha, let me know, let me know
Let me know

Verse 1:
When I feel what I feel
Sometimes it's hard to tell you so
You may not be in the mood to learn what you think you know

There are times when I find
You want to keep yourself from me
When I don't have the strength; I'm just a mirror of what I see

Chorus:
But at your best you are love
You're a positive motivating force within my life
Should you ever feel the need to wonder why
Let me know, let me know. . .

Verse 2:
When you feel what you feel
Oh, how hard for me to understand
So many things have taken place before this love affair began
But if you feel, oh, like I feel
Confusion can give way to doubt
For there are times when I fall short of what I say,
What I say I'm all about, all about

Chorus:
But at your best you are love
You're a positive motivating force within my life
Should you ever feel the need to wonder why
Let me know, let me know. . .

Bridge:
Tell me what it is (Tell me what it is)
Make believe, no need to make believe
Look beyond your own (Look beyond your own)
Try and find another place for me
Cause. . .

CHORUS

Ah, ah, ah - ha
See, at your best baby



Hope I helped!!!! this is the closest thing i found!!!!!


ok i will make this short there is this guy he is 17 and i am 14.im a girl. anyway I am like in love with him and he likes me. but were not goin out and we makeout and stuff but i dont know if he is just using me. But he really acts like he likes me.But i dont know if he goes and makes out with all these other girls who like him, and he tells me he doesnt like them. But he has been known to cheat on people. I know you are probably thinking get over him and your only 14 so just shutup but its not like that i really love him and i dont know what to do. So please be serious and be specific on what I should do. (link)
Since he is older he is more likely to be cheating on you since your younger. I kind of agree with Annerszz_101 about the whole myspace,facebook,ect. thing. But if that doesnt work maybe you should talk to people that know him,but have no reason to lie on him. If you really love him you ARE suppose to trust him,so just follow your heart and do what you think is right. Hope i helped!!! GOOD LUCK!!! =)


I just got a job at Subway and i start monday for training but im extreamly nervous. Its my first job. Has anyone ever worked at subway and peraps give me a few tips for working there? Thanks!!!!!! (link)
First of all even if your nervous,DONT ACT LIKE IT!!!!! Working at subway might be difficult because you have to do JUST what the customer says!! When people walk in give them a smile that says your experienced,And then that is when the work kicks in. Starting with the bread and working your way to the cookie,lol. As long as your relaxed and you do just what the customer says,you'll be FINE!!! And if you get nervous,just think,"Hey,i am just making sandwiches,LOL" GOOD LUCK =) And give some feedback on if i helped you or how your first day went!
Lots of Love,
Nay~Nay


ok so ill apologize now for how long it could get but idk what to do anymore. me and my friends Abby and Claire, weve all been best friends for about 4 years now. and then all of a sudden Claire wont talk to me and Abby.

how we thought it happened was because Claire had her own group of friends in her sporting event, soccor. and me and Abby wanted to try it and try out because we have a really small school so there really isnt much of a tryout. so we were going to practise over summer. well turns out Claire never wanted us to be on the team with her for some reason, even though weve been so supportive of all her sports shes ever done

Claire has always been a girl who if she can get someone to laugh then she does anything and everything, most of the time things shed get soo mad at if we did them to her. so me and Abby kinda talked to her about this, and we were really nice about it too.

then claire after that just stopped talking to us and now we all live pretty close so we meet up and hang out almost everyday. but we havent heard much of claire all summer. she said that we leave her alot when we hang out but the truth is, its always me or Abby the ones feeling left out, bc claire always seems to find a way to be the center of attention.

well we have another good friend who doesnt go to our school anymore her names Shelly and i guess her and Claire have been hanging out alot. Claire has now turned Shelly against us by i guess trash talking to everyone.

we dont know what to do because we miss her so much. this may seem like a lame situation but it really is bigger than it seems, and any advice would really help.


also in august me Abby and Claire were suppose to go to a concert and we have the tickets and everything but if Claire doesnt wanna go we also dont know what to do about that.

thank you so much for you help!! (link)
It sounds like Clair is REALLY not 2 good of a friend. If i where in your situation,i would talk to her one last time. Ask her why she is acting like that. Why she trash talks people. Are you going to go to the concert or not? When she answerers these questions i think you and your friend can tell if she is REALLY worth keeping. And about the concert,if you end up not working things out,try to find another friend to take to the concert.Also,make new friends,not to replace her but to have more loyal friends instead of just 2 of you. Maybe join some type of team. I really hope i helped and GOOD LUCK =) btw PLEASE leave feedback so i will know if i helped you =)


Okay so me and my boyfriend have been going out for five months now.
and we make out for hours
and my parents dont know about it
they think were just friends
but im so scared that one day theylll catch us
so i figured i should just tell them
thing is ...
if i tell them i dont think ill ever be able to see my bf ever again
what do i do??? (link)
I think if your relationship means that much,you shouldnt tell your parents and just be careful where you make out or do things that "just friends" dont do. But if your parents' trust is more important to you,then tell them. The same thing happened to me a few months ago,but i didnt tell my parents we where going out. It all worked out good becuz i was careful of wat i did around them. Hope i helped and GOOD LUCK!! =)
btw you have to figure that your parents might not have a problem with you dating since you have been such close friends! =)


if you have a prepaid cellphone like when you call someone on the caller id does it say your name and last name? (link)
No it just says wireless caller and your number! =)


okay so ive had a terrible relationship for the past year as it is. and when you think it cant get much worse, it does. So my boyfriend started talking to some girl to get me jealous (as he says) because we broke up and he wanted to show me that we cant keep breaking up. so we got back together and he said hed stop talking to her. so than i believe him when ever he told me he stopped talking her. ( i wasnt friends with the girl either) he told me he was going to take me to a phillies game. Than tells me he as to work so the last mintue he cancells on me. Some girl that went told me he saw him there, but when i asked he told me he wasnt. So i let that go. Than mdw came and i wasnt with him cause of softball. After that the same girl he was talking to when we broke up came to me and told me that hes been cheating on me with her and that he had sex with her mdw. Of course he said it wasnt true and the girl was mad cause he stopped talking to her for me. than i heard another rumor that some girl walked in on him and some girl mdw having sex when she was staying at this house ( but with a different girl) the girl who said it didnt want to get invovled and really would have no reason to lie, she didnt even know he had a gf or who i was. He keeps telling me none of its true and that he'll call the girls and flip out. He wrote me 28347234 page letters and what not telling me how much he loves me and never cheated on me. He even has his friends calling me telling me nothing happened and their all lieing. and honestly i dont know what to believe. i would like to think none of its true, but why would someone say they saw him at the phillies game, or a girl come to me and say they did stuff, or another girl say she walked in on him. i heard of rumors, but 3 in the a row? i was just looking for other peoples thoughts about my problem. I would really love to hear what other people had to say about it. thank you! (link)
If i where in your situation,i probably have done lost trust in him. All of these girls really dont have a reason to say all these things about him (except 4 that one girl). I myself kind of believe that he is cheating on you =( I think you need to look deep into your heart basically, to figure out what you and who you REALLY believe. But i hope my opinion and/or my advice helps you because you deserve a trusting relationship!!!!! BEST OF LUCK!!!!! =)


hello 14/f california
i feel like im no where near confident enough in the way of getting a guys attention. im 5'7" blonde mature for my age a little over weight but not much. usually wen a guy flirts with me hes joking or is just trying to mess with me. my best friend has no problem what so ever with guys but shes unfortunatly considered a slut. im not saying that i want to be like her i just want to know how she does it. i had one boyfriend last summer and i really really liked him. but he dumped me when school started saying that he liked different girls. we did hook up in january like twice but then he stopped talking to me and i havent worked up the courage to text him or something. i dont really want to get only him though. like any guy flirting would be nice. and its not like im a tottal nerd and i dont think im really that ugly at all. is there any way i can work up my confidence and be more talkative and flirtatious with guys? (link)
Just think of guys kind of like girls except you find guys attractive and have TOTTALY different features,lol. I just walk up to a guy in a vary flirtatious manner and start talking to him. Usually
the guy will pick up from there. but if none of this makes since to you then check out these links.
http://www.wikihow.com/Stop-Being-Boy-Shy
http://www.buzzle.com/articles/flirting-tips-for-girls-how-to-flirt-with-a-guy.html
I hope i helped!! =)


does anyone knw any GOOD workout moves...or like exercisses that will help with your weight??? ANYTHING will help please!!?!?!

thankz in advance
-cuttechick24
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Here is a few links i put together for you. Hope they help!!! =)

http://www.3aday.org/My-Health-And-Fitness/Workout-Moves/Pages/Workout-Moves.aspx
http://www.buildingbodies.ca/
http://www.mylifetime.com/lifestyle/health/fitness/seven-exercise-moves-beginners
http://www.3aday.org/My-Health-And-Fitness/Workout-Moves/Pages/Workout-Moves.aspx

Good Luck!!!! =)


why do people lie? (link)
http://www.msnbc.msn.com/id/4072816/
This article i guess you could say explain it as best as it can be explained. I just say that people lie for reason like:
*Trying not to hurt your friends feelings
*Trying to gain self confidence or trying to get people to like them more
*Keeping from suffering any kind of punishment


Hope this clears things up a bit!!!!!


Okay so I need advice on how to gain someones trust back.
Me and my guy friend [were not dating] had sex like 2 days ago.
&& we were supposed to just keep it to ourselfs but I was extremely excited so I told my best friend about it and well she told her boyfriend who is friends with him and her boyfriend told him..
He confronted me in txt.
he said he wasnt mad just dissapointed.
He also said that he doesnt know if he should trust me.
Also that it will take time to gain that trust but it could happen.
that im a great girl but i have to learn to keep good things to myself.
that i fucked up but he still loves me.

Yeah i just sumed it up because there were like 20 txts but yeah.. what do you think?
Sorry my writing is all over the place. I just dont know what to do.
I want to be trusted again and soon.
Any advice would be greatly appreciated.
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I know you probably thought of it like that so dont hold that against me,butjust for a second imagine how it would feel to be in position.But i can understand you telling your best friend after something as big as that. I think you should explain to him that it was a big thing for you so you just HAD to tell your best friend. Tell him that you are sorry and your friend was the only one you wanted to know. I really hope i helped. Good Luck =) btw please leave me some feedback because i want to know if i helped you in any way =)


i would like hair like

http://i247.photobucket.com/albums/gg128/JDanielle89/l_ce64e139700254123d077b543efadd36.jpg


but i dont know what to ask for. can someone help! (link)
If i were you i would print out that picture and take it to your beautician and tell her you want your hair like that. I am sure one he/she sees the hair he/she will know how to cut it. Good Luck! =)


So my mother, older sister, and my younger sister went to petco to get my younger sister her first animal. I have a 12 year old cat named Lily and i love her to death. She loves me too, im like her true love or something. And so I saw this adorable greyish, blueish kitten in a cage! He is very cute and very friendly. My mommy let me hold him and asked which one i liked and all that other stuff. Sooooo then we left and my mom said she would have to talk to my dad [he does not care for animals but he can deal with him, he also does not like change]. Now she is having second thoughts about the lovely kitten and she thinks Lily would not like the new cat. Right now I told her to sleep on the idea. Please help I would be soooooo greatfull i someone would anwer this question! How do I get my momma to buy me that cattttt!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!! Thank you!!! (link)
Explain to her as much as you can how much you want that kitten,and tell her that Lily is getting older and would probably love to have a little kitten around. Also tell her you REALLY care about the kitten and if u adopt it you will know it will have a great,loving home but no telling what other kind of home it might end up with! I hope i helped!!!!! and i really hope you get tat kitten GOOD LUCK =)


i know people come in all deifferent shapes and sizes

but i was wondering what the average weight of a 5'3'' 13 year old is?
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About 115-120 ibs. Around that area... Hope I helped!!!!!! =)


my mom doesnt want me laying in the sun that much b/c she is afraid of me catching skin cancer. Im irish and italian just to let u know...b/c i know that irish people are pale; which i am. my face gets burnt very easy and i don't like it so its hard for me to lay in the sun. does anyone know any suntan lotion that i can use that will be good for my skin that wont make me get burned but i get a tan? if so thanks in advanced! (link)
Mary Kay Sun Essentials Sensible Protection Sunblock. SPF 15. I have very pail skin and this is what i use 2 protect my skin. It is AMAZING!!! It wont get u sunburnt but it WILL give you a tan.... Hope i helped...best of Luck!!!!! =)




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