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ok i will make this short there is this guy he is 17 and i am 14.im a girl. anyway I am like in love with him and he likes me. but were not goin out and we makeout and stuff but i dont know if he is just using me. But he really acts like he likes me.But i dont know if he goes and makes out with all these other girls who like him, and he tells me he doesnt like them. But he has been known to cheat on people. I know you are probably thinking get over him and your only 14 so just shutup but its not like that i really love him and i dont know what to do. So please be serious and be specific on what I should do.
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Here's my serious advice:
Get the heck away from this kid. He's cheating on you, and he's been known to cheat on other people. I think it's pretty safe to say he'll keep cheating on you.
He IS using you and you're probably just another girl he's playing. Does he tell you that he's completely devoted to you and you look in his eyes and know FOR SURE he's telling the truth? If the answer is no- I don't think that he's a very honest person and he's definitely not someone you should be with.
There are plenty of people out there who won't do this to you ;].
--Jack
(16/m)
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well, ive felt like that plenty just simple talk to him. but realize hes 17 your 14 if finds an older girl he'll go for her
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Since he is older he is more likely to be cheating on you since your younger. I kind of agree with Annerszz_101 about the whole myspace,facebook,ect. thing. But if that doesnt work maybe you should talk to people that know him,but have no reason to lie on him. If you really love him you ARE suppose to trust him,so just follow your heart and do what you think is right. Hope i helped!!! GOOD LUCK!!! =)
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i have been in that situation before, and if he has a myspace, facebook, etc, this probably sounds wrong but just see who he talks to and what the girls he talks to say about him, and such.
if not, i guess if you love him you ARE supposed to trust him, but if you're like me you always have that little doubt.
try hanging out with him and his friends and see how they react to you.
but usually when 17 year old guys are messing around with younger girls and they aren't dating, it sometimes, NOT ALWAYS, but sometimes means he's cheating. or he's using.
i don't know much about your guy, but if he's getting a lot of calls and texts and takes them while you're there with him, you might want to question him more.
hope i helped.
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