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confidence!


Question Posted Sunday July 13 2008, 4:42 pm

hello 14/f california
i feel like im no where near confident enough in the way of getting a guys attention. im 5'7" blonde mature for my age a little over weight but not much. usually wen a guy flirts with me hes joking or is just trying to mess with me. my best friend has no problem what so ever with guys but shes unfortunatly considered a slut. im not saying that i want to be like her i just want to know how she does it. i had one boyfriend last summer and i really really liked him. but he dumped me when school started saying that he liked different girls. we did hook up in january like twice but then he stopped talking to me and i havent worked up the courage to text him or something. i dont really want to get only him though. like any guy flirting would be nice. and its not like im a tottal nerd and i dont think im really that ugly at all. is there any way i can work up my confidence and be more talkative and flirtatious with guys?


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somanywispers answered Sunday July 13 2008, 11:19 pm:
HALT HALT fourteen !!!! im sorry sweety but your not even sixteen ... lol you have time to flert ! right now you should be hitting the beach in a cuite tankkinnie !!!! a grate way to meet a " boy " your too young for a guy is by jokes and fun conversation it depends on the kind you want!
it never hurts to brush up on some guy stuff like vidio games and skating or surfing ! that way you can be oh ya i know all about that take it from me a guy will appreciate a gril who is able to be cuite fun and sporty at the same time for me as an example my bf im about to hit 18 is a bigg gamer and ever now and then i play along with him and all his friends envey him becoouse i can wear a sexy skirt one day and jeans and a tee another and still be fragle and hard core!!!
you need to find your self first befor you can please others!!!!
and blod has nothing to do with it but becouse you 5/7 dont ware heals guys hate taller chicks so get lots of awesome flats and you can get tons of them at jc pennys and mervins!
dont fret on one guy whos in your past there are many out there for hevans sake your in calli fornia !

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naynaybby answered Sunday July 13 2008, 6:03 pm:
Just think of guys kind of like girls except you find guys attractive and have TOTTALY different features,lol. I just walk up to a guy in a vary flirtatious manner and start talking to him. Usually
the guy will pick up from there. but if none of this makes since to you then check out these links.
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I hope i helped!! =)

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