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ok so i've have a thing for a couple weeks with this one guy, billy. In the beginging everything was really fun a we got along really great, but ever sence we started hooking up, we cant seem to hold a conversation. When ever we hang out we normally just hook up cuz we have nothing to say to each other. When were in places were it is inappropriate to hook up we usually just talk to other people, or have horrible small talk. idk what to do, I feel like we cant get back to how it used to be
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wow.meand my ex girlfriend had this issue alot.usually reguardless of anything the first couple of weeks are good.wat i would try is going places where you actually do things.not like the mall or anything but like somewhere where you and him actually do exiting things together and usually a conversation will start from that
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All you can really do is talk to him about it. I know you seem to have a hard time talking in the first place, but the least you can do is try.
Other than that, just make an effort to have a conversation with him. You have to try and make things work with him, things won't just automatically be perfect. Ask him how his day was, talk about your families, anything.
And maybe you can stop hooking up with him. It only will end up causing more tension and making things more awkward in your relationship.
-Laura. (16-f)
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