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Asking a girl out
About two weeks ago I asked a girl out who I was very close with. She said she didn't know yet and that she would like to hang out more first. We have been hanging out ever since almost every day even though we both work and have other responsibilities, we have made time in the day. For the past few days all of our friends have been telling me to ask her out again. I'm not sure what to do. Is the a certain period of time to wait before asking again? Since the first time I asked in kind of an extravagant way should i do something better this time? Is there anything she will do to let me know she's ready now?
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Talk with her. I know that can be uncomfortable at times, but it can really help you understand what she's thinking. Ask her if she's ready to date, and if she's not, give her a little more time.
If she means something to you, waiting a little longer should be worth it ;].
If in a month or two she doesn't want to date yet, I guess then it would be too much time to wait, you know. But I guess by then, going out every day or so for a month would mean you're dating whether you make it official or not.
Just talk with her- that's the solution to most problems like this. =].
--Jack
(16/m)
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well when your hanging out you may notice that she is paying ore attention to you then she did before . i think that you should wait until you have been hanging out for a month since you last asked her and if it has allready been a month then i dont see why you shouldnt ask her again. just be carefull how you ask so she doesnt think you are desperate.
let me know how it all works out
lots of love,lizzie
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Okay, well you've been "hanging out" since then, and she clearly is interested because you've been hanging out practically every day, otherwise you 2 would've faded out slowly
so, instead of just "hanging" ask her out on a date, but don't tell her it's a date, make it out like your just hanging out again but take her to like.. the cinema or something else romantic - this will definitely boost you up on the "seeing her" category.
If she avoids it, just carry on hanging out normally, and ask her again the following week but change the location, but keep it a romantic venue. If she avoids it again, you've unfortunately fallen into the friend zone, and you will have to keep your distance from her and make her try and contact you all the time..
When you go out on this "date" try getting close to her, and invade her personal space, put your arm around her, be playful etc, and if things seem really comfortable, try lean in a little closer to her and see if you kiss ;)
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