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Is she too old for me?


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 8:49 pm

I'm a girl and I like this other girl at my school. She's a senior and I'm a sophomore. 15(almost 16) to be exact. She's 18. I'm not sure if she's too old for me because I've heard that liking her is a lost cause.

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Leaving the LDS (Mormon) Church


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 8:49 pm

18/F
As a child my parents made me go to the church and as I grew older I grew to dislike the church, I don't believe in the religion and I decided to resign my membership from the LDS church, well a while back I sent in a resignation letter, It stated that I was resigning my name and all records and no longer wanted to be a member of the church, I also stated that they were not to contact my family members or other members of the church in this matter, I told them to no longer contact me either, saying this letter was my official resignation.
Well I received a letter today, it stated they were contacting my stake president, and my bishop, who would then contact me. I told them I didn't want anymore contact which they disregar...

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He lacks the drive to work


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 8:00 pm

My boyfriend Brian and I have dated for a year now. Everything in the realationship is great and everything but there's one thing that my parents and myself worry about: the drive to work. We worked at the same supermarket for a month then he quit because he said that he felt stressed there. U wasn't going to argue with him if he felt that way so he quit. But I worried that in the future if and when we take a further step into the.relationship if he's going.to still lack that drive to work. I love him, he's such a sweet guy, romantic respectful everything. And he tells me he wants to work but when he applies no one ever calls him.
What should I do??
I don't plan on breaking up with him...
Help
17/f 18/m

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Why's he still staring and trying to be cool?


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 5:22 pm


okay so theres this guy who i'll call Popcorn who i used to talk to for five months this past year but then after i told him how i felt he said he didn't like me and liked some other girl. and so then we stop talking but he always acted interested and flirted but we never met in person.
and now the school year restarted and so every time i see Popcorn or get close i start to shake really bad. (why's that?)and now his friend Tire set me up with one of his friends Van and we've hit it off.
but then again Popcorn tends to stares at me whenever he sees me. like in the hallways passing by me and anywhere else. and then so today i was in my cafeteria because i didn't have my teacher in school. so i was in the cafeteria and t...

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Are Babies Worth Having?


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 3:27 pm

So, I have been with my boyfriend for a while now. I'm not planning on having a family anytime soon, since I decided 24+ would be the best time (done with my degree's and such). But my problem is I have 2 minds about it

on one hand I do want a family with him, I always get told I'd make a good mother and I don't doubt that I would be one (with enough reading and knowledge, etc.) but then I think of all the nasty parts! the labour is one thing, but then there's years of dirty diapers, sleepless nights, etc. etc.

I suppose I just want to know (from parents, women preferably) if it's worth it? Is it really as painful as it looks??(that seems like a dumb question haha)

and also, on a slightly more ...

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Hypocrital boyfriend


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 6:42 am

I'm not sure what to do. I've been dating my boyfriend on and off for over 3 years. We've had our fair share of problems in the past. But the thing I need help on now is he has always been jealous and hypocritical about so much and right now he's currently living in my house with my family because he needed help with things. Over the summer we werent dating. We both expirienced with other people. One girl in particular he had a thing with was very obsessive and begged for him back when we got back together. Now they are friends and yes, it bugs me. But she offerred him a job with her at a small store in the mall. And he accepted it. Right when he good me this I was not happy. I told him he would hate it if I did this to him. But he just doe...

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What should sing


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 6:16 am

I have an assignment on Music.
I have to sing a song.
I'm so confused on what should i sing! My voice cant reach a note to low. But i can reach a high note. Help me please. I want the song to be something about love.

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Feeling Empty Inside


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 2:29 am

19/F
First of all thank you for whom is reading this. I go to school part time and just got a new job. I'm trying to figure out myself and just deleted my Facebook because I feel as if it is a distraction. I feel empty, and it's normally when I'm not talking to a guy. I don't know why I feel this way. My last two boyfriends started as one night stands. One lasted a year, the other one two years. I can't seem to take a relationship slow either. Is it just my hormones? I feel like it's wrong to have sex with multiple people but lately I've been wanting to. Most of my friends are guys as well. I use to have an alcoholic problem but I've been a lot better. I just don't understand why I'm so addicted to guys.

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I miss hikm. A lot more than I thought I did...


Posted Thursday November 8 2012, 12:41 am

F/15
I know some of you might think i'm a little young, but there's this boy who I miss terribly. Him and I broke up about 2 weeks ago I think. We almost dated for a month and I know what you're thinking but we have known each other for a while and we have dated before. Anywhore he broke up with me because I was jealous of one of his friends who is a girl and she would always have her hands on him, she was always either messing with him or hitting him and obviously I didn't like it. One day i confronted him about it and told him I didn't like it. He told me that if I didn't like it then it wouldn't happen again. I said okay and just kept an eye on him. Well she was still messing with him all the time, but I just started to let it g...

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Stressed in college!


Posted Wednesday November 7 2012, 11:21 pm

I started a new semester at a different college. It's my junior year and school is kicking me hard! I'm an A-B student but this semester, I think I'll get C's in my classes. I'm a Biology major, so this really sucks and it will greatly bring down my science GPA! It's already a B! I don't know what to do but I'm so overwhelmed with my grades and school in general! I really do try my best but I'm so stressed out that I don't even want to try anymore. I already decided that I'm not going to medical school anymore because of the stress. I was thinking either PA or Optometrist but I dont think any school would want me. What should I do?

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What does it mean when your boobs hurt a LOT!?


Posted Wednesday November 7 2012, 10:36 pm

what does it mean when your boobs hurt?

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Sad piano tune got stuck in my mind and made me depressed for a long time. Help me :(


Posted Wednesday November 7 2012, 8:11 pm

In about 2010, I watched the movie Hachi and got depressed about the sad piano tune. It got stuck in my mind and made me depressed for a long time. It's gone, but I think it's coming back because my mom watched the first 8 minutes of it but I turned it and now It's like coming back to me. What do I do?!

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acne: what can I do about butt acne?


Posted Wednesday November 7 2012, 7:11 pm

I have a few zits on my bum cheeks..what can I do about butt acne?

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Is this bad, or weird?


Posted Wednesday November 7 2012, 5:56 pm

This feels weird but, I'm a senior in high school, male/17. And lately I've been having this thing for the younger girls at school, like 14 & 15. There's one I know and I like her, the ones I know seem a lot nicer than some of the senior girls I know. My senior class is kind of small, and most of us know eachother. The girl I like, (we're not that close) when I'm with her I feel like the people around me are looking at me like I'm crazy. This junior kid I know told me to stop trying to go out with freshmen. Our age gap is under 3 years to be exact. My close friends, like 3 of them, don't see anything wrong with it. And why is it that when the guy is younger, people don't say anything. My friend was once with an older senior girl who had...

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I think my boyfriend is loosing interest in me.


Posted Wednesday November 7 2012, 3:09 pm

A few months ago I caught my boyfriend talking to many (like 50) girls through his facebook, email etc. He was flirting. Saying he is single (we have been together for over a year) asking for their number, talking sexually to them to hook up. When I confronted him all he could tell me was he doesnt know why he did what he did and he said it would stop. I decided to give him a chance. See if I could trust him again but ever since he has not been the same. He is more on edge, secretive. He doesnt hug or kiss me ever anymore and he used to have trouble keeping his hands off of me. He used to want sex everyday now we are lucky if it is once a week and the last few times I have had to initiate because he seems to have no interest. He always has ...

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am i allowed to forgive myself?


Posted Wednesday November 7 2012, 1:03 pm

so i guess i've been a really bad person. i cheated on my ex boyfriend with someone else whom i didnt tell that i was in a relationship with someone. then i met someone who i truely started loving and started a new life with him. we're still together and i've never cheated on him, we're a great couple.
i never loved either of the other guys, i just used them because i didnt want to be all alone and i knew that they wouldnt want to be just friends. i didnt have anyone else because its hard for me to make friends. i was suffering from depression too and used to cut myself a lot which made both of them feel bad. i still used them even though they where there for me all the time. i guess i just wanted to feel loved. i know that all of th...

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pregnency controll


Posted Wednesday November 7 2012, 1:28 am

my period date is 1 but not come the period actual date so how to come the period what i do

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Having to lie to them about everything and can't be my own self.


Posted Tuesday November 6 2012, 11:35 pm

I have just been feeling depressed for a while now. I have no friends,just only the co-workers I work with. I really don't talk to my family like that anymore. I just go thru the same routine everyday. I feel like no one is there for me. I have struggle to keep myself together for the last past three years. I graduated High School about 3 years ago. I lost all my best friends. Arguements,lies happen after high school. So, No more friends. I don't want to go to school or work. No one ever texts or calls me unless it's family members wanting someone or asking something. I just don't know what to do. I never make plans because i'm always alone. I never been on a date. I'm have been single my whole life. I'm only 21 years old. I'm gay. I gotten...

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job advice


Posted Tuesday November 6 2012, 10:36 pm

I am working as an independent recruiter under another recruiter but there is no contract under his firm. There has not been any training yet he would get 20% of what I make. I have met with another recruiting firm and compensation is far less than with the other firm and there is a binding contract for 5 years. If it does not work out with him I would not be able to work with any customers that the firm is currently working with. Now I don't know what to do. I need advice please

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I like a guy at school but don't know if he likes methe same way?


Posted Tuesday November 6 2012, 9:16 pm

I have been liking this guy for over a year and a half. Eventually last year I thought that he wold of asked me out but he never did, but I don't get why? Ok so we would have two classes together and we got pretty close, eventually I would get mixed signals, because he would stare at me during lunch class and sometimes even in the hallways, but then he would always be around this other girl who is extremely pretty. He would walk her to class and talk to her i front of me, and would glance at my direction. We always held glances and I would feel chills. And a couple of days ago when we were in art detention we both sat together and I was like someone smells good and he was like I know I do, and I was like sure... Eventually he then said that...

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