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I think my boyfriend is loosing interest in me.
A few months ago I caught my boyfriend talking to many (like 50) girls through his facebook, email etc. He was flirting. Saying he is single (we have been together for over a year) asking for their number, talking sexually to them to hook up. When I confronted him all he could tell me was he doesnt know why he did what he did and he said it would stop. I decided to give him a chance. See if I could trust him again but ever since he has not been the same. He is more on edge, secretive. He doesnt hug or kiss me ever anymore and he used to have trouble keeping his hands off of me. He used to want sex everyday now we are lucky if it is once a week and the last few times I have had to initiate because he seems to have no interest. He always has a reason why he doesnt feel in the mood. He doesnt seem to really care about me anymore. I was really sick a few days ago and not even once did he try to help me around the house and he didnt even ask me how I was feeling. He complains I am always in his space and gets mad at me for every little thing. When he does it turns into an agruement which he eventually starts yelling and swearing at me and tells me everything I say and do is wrong and if im not happy to just leave. He says that he doesnt make me happy anymore and that I deserve better than him.
After I caught him trying to hook up with other girls and really talked to him about how much it hurt me and that I was willing to give him a chance to prove to me that I could trust him he has been distancing himself from me.
I dont understand why he is acting this way. Does he want out and too afraid to admit it? I have tried talking to him but he just gets mad and storms off and says theres nothing wrong and I am complaining for no reason. I dont know what to do anymore I am so heartbroken. Please help!
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As much as I hate to admit it, I've been this guy. He wants out but he's too much of a puss to break it off. He just acts like he's already single and he's hoping you'll take the hint and end it so he doesn't have to. That takes all the pressure off him. I did a similar thing about 6 years ago. All I can say is move on and do not waste your time any more. He doesn't want to save it. He's treating you like shit until you do his job for him and break it off.
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He sounds like a real skeeze, hon. Maybe he wasn't always, but that seems to be what he is now.
If I were you... I'd end it and find someone new. There is a world of people out there that are awesome. There's never a good reason to waste your time on someone that makes life difficult for you.
I recently had my bf pull away from me, and I couldn't figure out why... so I broke up with him. It hasn't been the end of the world. I already have a few people I've seen.
Life goes on... and you should too.
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