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Hypocrital boyfriend
I'm not sure what to do. I've been dating my boyfriend on and off for over 3 years. We've had our fair share of problems in the past. But the thing I need help on now is he has always been jealous and hypocritical about so much and right now he's currently living in my house with my family because he needed help with things. Over the summer we werent dating. We both expirienced with other people. One girl in particular he had a thing with was very obsessive and begged for him back when we got back together. Now they are friends and yes, it bugs me. But she offerred him a job with her at a small store in the mall. And he accepted it. Right when he good me this I was not happy. I told him he would hate it if I did this to him. But he just doesn't care. I know he wouldn't cheat on me and its not that I don't trust him I feel like its just really disrespectful for him to still work there when he knows how much it hurts me. I don't know what to do :(
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I do see where you're coming from. But you need to look at it from his point of view. He has to live with his girlfriend and her parents. He finally has a job and can get somewhere and you want to take that from him? That's not fair. He chose you over her already, and she knows you're with him. I'm not saying she won't try anything, but you said yourself he wouldn't cheat on you. It's not disrespectful of him to be working there. You should be happy. He could be lying on his butt all day at your house and living off of your parents. He's being respectful, you just gotta get around that kind of thing and get a job yourself if you need to. It's not easy to get a job nowadays, so it wouldn't be fair for you to tell him to quit
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It is disrespectful. Ask him how he would feel if you accepted a job at your ex boyfriend's store. It's rude. And he's living in your family's house! It's up to you but I'd give him an ultimatum. There's plenty of jobs.
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