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What do I do? How do I handle this?


Posted Monday January 7 2013, 3:06 pm

Ok so there is this guy named, let's say, Tom.. I like him a lot but I'm sure if he likes me. We have this one class together and we flirtin that class all the time. Like this past Thrusday we were sitting there and he was like "The only reason I like this class is becuase it's the only class I have with certain peopole." He asked me if I drove and i said yeah why and he was like I was just wondering. Then eh was like how old are you and I said 16 and he was like me too. We were watching a video this day and we talked throughout the whole video. My hands were like ice and I told him and he took my hands and held them between his and was warming my hands up and he kept touching my face and he kept touching my knee to see if I was ...

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Cheat-ee has become the Cheat-er: Now I have slept with 7 different men since the time I first cheated on my husband. What am I doing?


Posted Monday January 7 2013, 10:03 am

My husband and I have been married for 3 years. He cheated on me with his ex our entire 3 year engagement, through my pregnancy, and I didn't find out until right before we got married. I still married him because I love him, and I figured it would be a fresh start for us.

Now the tables have turned.

About a year into our marriage, I guess I finally decided that I can't trust him and he wasn't changing his ways, so I ended it. We were apart for a week or so, when I decided to sleep with someone else. I'd never been with another man; I was curious. It was a terrible experience, and I regretted it instantly. My husband and I ended up getting back together, and he has yet to forgive me for what I did. F...

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I can't 'forget' my best friend.


Posted Monday January 7 2013, 9:07 am

She was my best friend, now she's a bitch. She acts cool and back-stabs me. I feel hurt and just because I said one things about her, she blew her top off and threatened to break off all ties with me. She then spread vicious rumors about me and now I feel so sad. I wasn't in the wrong!
My other friends tell me to forget about her and keep a distance. Because it was her who made my life hell. But how?! It's so hard! She was my best friend! How can you forget an ex-best friend even if she is so bitchy now? Help:(

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Help to unlock my Motorola MB525 .


Posted Monday January 7 2013, 8:51 am

I’m fed up with poor service, must unlock my Motorola MB525, any help appreciated ?

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second thoughts


Posted Monday January 7 2013, 8:50 am

in all honesty i've never done this before but i just feel like i have noone to turn to about this. so i've been working my ass off to save money fly and see this guy. he lives in the states and i live in canada. we met here when he was on vaca meeting some relatives. anywho at first we webcammed texted and talked on the phone and eventually i geuss our lives put more distance then.. we already were. we planned for me to fly over at the end of the month but im having second thoughts we barely talk.. its just how are u okay bye... dull. and now a new guys popped into my life and he's all ears and gives me so much attention. i dont know if i should go we talked for nearly 8 months.... and its fading.. since we live so far communication is so ...

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To unlock my HTC G2


Posted Monday January 7 2013, 8:49 am

I need to unlock my HTC G2, can anybody help ?

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Unlock my BlackBerry Bold 2 .


Posted Monday January 7 2013, 8:48 am

I’m fed up with poor service, must unlock my BlackBerry Bold 2, can anybody assist ?


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Best tie for a 15 year old boy?


Posted Monday January 7 2013, 2:51 am

I'm getting my boyfriend a tie for his 15th birthday (He likes ties, goes to church and stuff) and I bought 3 and can't decide (Buying ties are so overwhelming there are literally like 1000 o_o)
I'm pretty sure the 3rd tie is too feminine (and ugly IMO) for him, but my mom picked it out and I sent these to his sister and she said they were all fine, and for me to pick the one I'd want to see him wear but I rather get him one that he actually likes -_-
So I'm pretty much debating between the first 2. He knows my favorite color is pink so he might like the first one but I don't know if that one's also too feminine, my 51 Yr old dad thinks it's actually kind of pretty but I don't know. :/
I'm sure he wouldn't mind the pink...

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Gay man trapped in a woman's body


Posted Monday January 7 2013, 2:45 am

Does that even make sense? I mean, I'm a woman and currently in a relationship with a man. And that's fine by me. I'm attracted to men, but at the same time, I want to be a man. I've always been a bit of a tomboy and I'm not shy about a man's body at all or the way it works. These thoughts have been in my head for years now, this is the seventh year, but I'm not sure if I should act on this or find something to purge the thoughts. I've never told anyone this, not my family or my therapist. What should I do??

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Controlling Obsessive Boyfriend


Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 11:40 pm

I am an 18 year old girl from Texas. I met this guy on a dating site and we started having phone conversations every night for 3-6 hours. After the second call we decided we were together. I thought I had fallen for him, but he's in for a much more serious relationship than I am. He wants to get engaged when we graduate high school in six months and get married six months after. He wants to go to the same college and live together. Every time I tell him I want to break up he talks me out of it. He's done really bad things related to drugs and crime and I am afraid he will do something to me. I am a good girl. I have a 4.0 GPA, I'm in varsity orchestra, varsity lacrosse, cross country, I work and I'm working on going to A&M. I've never a...

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my best friend isn't acting like the girl I became best friends with


Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 10:27 pm

I'm a 13 year old girl. My best friend and I have been fighting. We were fighting at her cousins house and she pushed me then kicked me in the head. It really hurt afterwards but I was ok. She betrayed my trust and then lied to me about it. She has been very mean to my boyfriend and he thinks I should stop being her friend (not just for him but for me too). My parents aren't crazy about her either. She used to be nice and actually beautiful, and I don't know what happened to her. I've always found someway to forgive her but this time I don't know.

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am I ready for this relationship?


Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 9:57 pm

okay i'm currently 16 I turn 17 in july

I really love my bf and he telling alot of people thagt he believes
i'm the perfect girl he is too 16 almost 17.he tells me that he is ready to settle down and that he wants to get married and have a kid.I really love him alot and yes he does smoke weed and cigarette and yes my parents know he does.he is a really good guy but something is holding me back he is a bit controlling like he gets mad if I talk about other guys and if I go a full two days J seeing him he threatens to take his own life and then he says that we need to runaway and get married idk I love him and always will it's just thode two things that's hurting me

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What would happen if my me and my teacher had consensual sex?


Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 9:26 pm

I am so very deeply in love with my teacher, I am obsessed with her and crave her immensely. She is such a beautiful and perfect lady. She is 28 and I am 16. I fantasize about her all the time and one of my main fantasies of course is having sex with her. I am wondering, what would happen if me and her had consensual sex? Would she still get in trouble even though it was 100% consensual? What if I went in front of the judge and said that I wanted whatever she did to me and to not punish her. What would happen then? Seriously. I'd be willing to get on my knees in front of the judge and beg and cry not to punish her. This is all hypothetical don't worry it won't actually happen. ALso I hear they go easier on females than males in these kinds of cases

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lose wieght now


Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 9:16 pm

hello im 13f and have struggled with bulimia and want to lose weight the safe way now.im overweight and hate it i also have cut myself burned and bruised myself for years help im so ugly right now i gained 5 pounds over the holiday :(

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Uneventful love life and don't know what's right for me


Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 7:21 pm

I can't stop thinking. I'm going on 22 years old and I've never had any experiences with love or sex. The past few months have been a roller coaster of emotions, many extremely positive ones. New changes, particularly significant weight loss have given me confidence I've never experienced before. Having been insecure and somewhat shy, experiencing major confidence for the first time is a remarkable feeling.

In very basic terms, I'm often desperate for male intimacy. I've gone on a couple dates, mildly physical with with one guy, but long story short, we didn't click. I never act on my emotions when things are risky. A lot of my friends engage in sexual behavior with people they don't know but I don't do this. Some of my frie...

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I kinda have a urge for my BFF


Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 6:08 pm

Well, I am straight, at least I know, and my bff always says how imperfect she is. But really she is super pretty and all that. Some one showed me one of those My little pony things with the ponies liking eachothers vagina, I kinda have the urge to do that to my BFF. Im not sure if that would just be group masturbation or if it considered bisexual or lesbian.HELP!!!! Btw im female

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Getting rid of a financed car


Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 5:34 pm

I owe $11,246.34 on a 2010 Chevrolet HHR LT with 47500 miles on it. I'm looking to get rid of it and get something cheaper, so I posted an ad on Craigslist. A man contacted me saying that he'd like to set something up where he takes over the payments. He specifically said that he didn't want to do it through the dealership because he didn't want ownership to be transferred right away. Said something about how he just financed a new Corvette. He did mention documents and getting things notarized and everything, but I'm still a little suspicious of why he would go through all that. Where should I go from here?

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Important factors that college admissions look for.


Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 3:43 pm

So I am a junior in high school but I feel really unprepared for senior year, when college apps start. My dream school is any Ivy League school in the East because I wanna be away from home, but I think I have a less likely chance of getting admitted because I have bad grades and I'm below the GPA average (I have a 3.0). I failed my SAT, which makes me frustrated and I hate the Critical Reading section, but I'm retaking again in February (hoping I get at least a 2100).
Any suggestions to help so I can make my college apps look "better" when it is my turn to apply? And I need leadership, so any suggestions on that?

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What should I do with school etc? Should I homeschool?


Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 3:40 pm

Hi, I'm a 14/male in high school (UK). Now, I don't think I really fit in, I have friends but they aren't good friends at ALL. To be honest, I wouldn't even class them as my friends. I want to get home schooled and really don't want to go back. My parents have finally (kind of) come round to the idea but they want me to go back on Tuesday and I really don't want to so I said I'm not going. I don't want to cause trouble for him but I just can't cope at school I don't know why. Don't fit in and stuff I guess, I want time to sort my appearance out and try to boost my confidence which is really low right now. Should I go ahead? The way I think of it is:
Option A) Go to school, stay with no confidence, stay with bad friends, no social lif...

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I always feel a bit taken advantage of...


Posted Sunday January 6 2013, 3:37 pm

19F 21M
So I have been dating this guy for nearly a year. It has always been the way it is. I have just always tried harder. Our first date I offered to pay because he was out of work at the time. Over the summer I worked a lot more at my job and was getting bigger checks. He would take me out to a movie once a month maybe twice after he started working. But I would loan him money like 50-100 because he would go without food for a day or two sometimes and needed money to hold him over. Well he is on his feet now and I am proud that we stuck through that together. He has a place and his own car and has gotten 2 promotions at work. I always feel a bit taken advantage of though. I usually make him dinner since when he gets home he is e...

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