I can't 'forget' my best friend.

Question Posted Monday January 7 2013, 9:07 am

She was my best friend, now she's a bitch. She acts cool and back-stabs me. I feel hurt and just because I said one things about her, she blew her top off and threatened to break off all ties with me. She then spread vicious rumors about me and now I feel so sad. I wasn't in the wrong!
My other friends tell me to forget about her and keep a distance. Because it was her who made my life hell. But how?! It's so hard! She was my best friend! How can you forget an ex-best friend even if she is so bitchy now? Help:(

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05natalie05 answered Wednesday January 9 2013, 9:20 pm:
Did she become a bitch before or after you said something about her?
If it was before, then she has unfortunately changed and you need to move on and find a best friend that is actually a caring, kind best friend. It will obviously be hard but lots of people change as they get older, and we need to move on sometimes.
If it was AFTER you said something, she is probably mad at you and you can try fix your friendship by having a talk with her. Let her speak her mind honestly and don't get mad at her. You've hurt her and you need to apologize and listen to her. Also, tell her how she hurt you if you need to.

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Brandi_S answered Wednesday January 9 2013, 5:23 pm:
So wait... What was the one thing you said about her? Sounds like you really hurt her and pissed her off. Her retaliation is uncalled for, but you say it was her that made your life hell. You sure you didn't have a hand in that hell with what you said about her?

hmmm...

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mercury answered Tuesday January 8 2013, 10:51 pm:
Patching things up with her. Talk to her. Say things like: why are you so mad at me? Whay all this hatred towards me? Tell her that you feel sorry for what you said about her,and that you miss her,because she's still your best friend. But get together. There's nothing better than forgiveness in friendship. I'm telling you this because I could never sort things out with my ex best friend and whenever I can,I try to help others not to make the same mistake I made. Hope I helped you a little:)

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