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I kinda have a urge for my BFF
Well, I am straight, at least I know, and my bff always says how imperfect she is. But really she is super pretty and all that. Some one showed me one of those My little pony things with the ponies liking eachothers vagina, I kinda have the urge to do that to my BFF. Im not sure if that would just be group masturbation or if it considered bisexual or lesbian.HELP!!!! Btw im female
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Girl friends are normally more intimate and 'touchy-feely' than male friends (where it is definitely not acceptable behaviour). Feelings could easily extend to a very sexual nature. It doesn't make you lesbian, or even that you will be bisexual in later life. I can appreciate that you've got a strong sexual urge towards your friend, and it's rooted in good stuff too...a sound friendship. But I'd suggest you don't present oral sex to her as a real option and something you're dying to do just yet. She might be horrified and you'll lose a good friend, and there's the gossip side of it. It might pass unfulfilled, just a phase of your sexuality. Play it by ear, and don't make any rash advances unless you're pretty sure they'll hit the mark. If you do at some point decide to be intimate with each other, on a mutually agreed level...then by no means would this be wrong or damaging. You sound quite young, so don't rush into anything. If your amorous attention had focussed on a lad, you'd just think 'I'm crushing'. Yours have focussed on your friend, and that's the only real difference. The urge, and even some actual physical realisation of it, is no where near as uncommon as you probably feel it is, and it's quite natural too.
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