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he wants to kiss me....or not?


Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 12:43 pm

hey (: i'm 19 years old female.

so i like this guy, well actually we're best friends. and last night i was hanging out with him at our friends house and we both left at the same time and we ended up talking outside for like a half hour and like he kept getting close to my face, kind of like he wanted to kiss me. he kept giving me hugs, and stuff like that but i THINK he wanted to kiss me? the thing is i think he's scared. and i just wish he would make a move if he wanted to kiss me! because i'm not just going to kiss him, because what if he wasn't even thinking about kissing me!?

ahhhh what to do!

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True Love Never Dies??


Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 2:34 am

My name is Natalie, I am 17 years old and in the beginning to myn9th grade year I dated this guy named James. We were on and off and I listened to other people and it just messed up things for me and him. Over the time I started to fall in love with him. We decided to go back out his first year of college and I was a high school junior, of course it didn't work out because Of our schedules and then months later we had this big fall out and he blocked me from facebook and I deleted his number. In April I think I started feeling guilty because I did treat him like he was nothing and I do love him so I apolgized and he told me that his mother died and he was sorry too be aide life was too short to hold grudges. So we went back to being friends...

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Movie boyfriend


Posted Sunday August 9 2009, 1:02 am

I hate answering guy questions on here, but I'm stuck. I was wondering if anyone else has been in this situation before too?

There's this guy, Ben. We've been friends for years but recently started hanging out. Whenever we watch a movie, he'll put his arms around me, hold my hand, rub my side, or I'll fall asleep curled up in his lap. As soon as the movie is over, so is the romance. I thought maybe he liked me, but when I talked to him about it, it scared him off and we didn't talk for weeks. He came over tonight, and once again the movie thing happened. His friends are there, my friends are there. Everyone's seen it, but no one is able to tell me- is this guy into me or is this some sort of movie relationship?

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theres this guy. . .


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 10:25 pm

15/f

ok so theres this guy and i know he likes me and i kinda like him too but were good friends and i really dont want to risk losing that. he asks me to go places with him all the time but i never do cause i think it might be kind of awkward. what can i do to make things less awkward and make sure that when we do go out its strictly as friends?? HELP!!

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cheating and boredom


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 8:37 pm

what if your boyfriend stops calling like he use to when you first started out and hes moody and standoffish and bites your hrad off all the time and he acts like he doesnt want to talk to you or be arond you and he doesnt want you to touch him sometimes an d you think hes cheating because he comes with excuses to not want to be around you or do anything togehter

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same guy


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 8:37 pm

i like my friend but she doesnt like me im pretty sure but shes just dissapointed in what i did and she doesnt want to get over it, im not sure if its a jealousy thing she just feels let down cause she says she thought i was a different person and im being a hypocrite cause ive said i dont like kids that take advantage of girls

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Ex Boyfriend


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 8:37 pm

Ok!! Well I just broke up with my boyfriend!! And about 5 minutes later after we broke up he called me beggin me to take me back!! And I Love him But im talkin to another guy right now that i've been with before!! I dont know what to do PLEASE HELP ME!!!

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Can i tell him how i feel?


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 8:37 pm

Im 21 and female. I broke up with a guy about 2 years ago and ive had feelings for him ever since. I basically broke up with him because of another guy and regreted it after. Weve kept in touch and im pretty sure im in love with him and have been even since we broke up. I recently found out he is going to propose to his girlfriend. This really upset me and i dont want him to marry her. I guess my question is, is it wrong for me to tell him how i feel about him since hes planning on marrying this other girl? Should i tell him or should i just leave it alone and try to move on?
thanks!

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does my boyfriend likes me.


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 8:36 pm

ok well me and my boyfriend have gone off and on for a little while now and well... he says he loves and that he wants to stay with me for a long time but he says that it doesnt feel like we are going out and that it should feel like we are and at 1st i agreed that it didnt feel like it and we both decided to wait and see what happens. but now i do feel like we are going out and i like him...ALOT! but he still does not completly fell like we are and i can tell it worrys him a lot. should i just wait or move on?

p.s.
he has thought about breaking up with me and i really dont want him to.

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i feel guilty about having a relationship


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 8:36 pm

hey im a 14 yr old boy and i like this girl named haily. every time we hang out i feel that she can do so much better than me. its weird because i have no self confedence problems. she is really cute.

p.s. im not a shallow boy who just like girls for their bodies, i like haily for her personality. i want to pour out my feelings for her because i reallllllllllly like her but i don't think she wants anything to do with a relationship. what should i do? please help me.

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boyfriend not ready


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 5:13 pm

Me and my boyfriend broke up about 2 weeks ago..When I say this I mean it I'm not nieve by any means..and he is the type of person who doesn't put feelings before the truth. We sat and talked for hours about why we were breaking up..finally he admitted to falling in love with me being the reason. He said he wasn't ready to give himself fully to a person and wasn't ready to have a serious relationship, and have those types of feelings in this stage of his life, he thought he was ready but he wasn't. I miss him a lot, i havn't called him, i havn't texted him..hes texted me once to try to keep up with "being friends"..and i told him im not ready for all that..he told me i was the best girlfriend hes ever had and it sucks because if ...

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Try again?


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 2:56 pm

Okay so me and my ex were best friends before we started going out like couldn't get any closer. Then we decided to take it further and we started going out. We were together for just under a year and were in love with each other. We split up just because it felt like we were just friends like the romance was kind of gone we're 17 and decided that it would be best to see what else is out there.

He said a few months after we split up that i was apparently "obsessed" with him because i was a bit jelous cos he was flirting with my friends and was trying to stay friends with him but now i've met a guy and we're just hooking up but like we won't get into a relationship which is fine...But now my ex has started talking to...

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Do I have a chance with him?


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 2:12 pm

Hi there,
I am a young woman who is best friends with a young man. We have been really close for about 6 years now, and i have had a crush on him for the majority of that time.
Recently, he admitted to me that he has feelings for me. Normally, I would be thrilled, however, he has a girlfriend, and it doesn't look like they will be breaking up any time soon.
Him and I have done more physical things that leads me to believe he really cares about me, but still he doesn't leave her even though he tells me he wants to. She treats him terribly and controls him. She hates me because I am so close with him. We even finish each others sentences. But i cant stop thinking about him. It hurts when I am with him, but even more when...

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I feel SO bad. My bf got beat up cuz of me.


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 1:21 am

Alright. So I'm a 16/F and this is what happened. My boyfriend and I were at a party the other night and we ran into trouble. There was this one other guy there (we'll call him J) and so J, me, and this other girl were just chilling on the couch while my boyfriend was off playing pool or something. So J takes my hand and starts leading me away from the couch and I'm just kind of like okayyy... because I mean, I didn't really know this kid too well but I was just like whatever, he probably just wants to get some food or something. Well he starts taking me back towards this room and I stop outside the door and I'm like "What are you doing?" and J says, "Come in here with me." I started babling like an idiot "What? No,...

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commitment issues...


Posted Saturday August 8 2009, 12:53 am

14/f

I've been asked out more than plenty of times in my life (I'm not going to complain about it) but I've never said yes to anyone. I never actually thought that the reason why was because something didn't feel right...until awhile ago a boy a really liked asked me out. And I totally blew it by the way... I totally freaked out when he asked me...I told him maybe and then I let it off for like a week...and then he told me he was moving so it would be too hard. So that was like a total slap in the face...
I think I might have commitment issues. I think my problem is that I'm really afraid to be in a relationship with someone, as much as I would love to. All my friends go in and out of these wonderful relationships and ...

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How to get a love life


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 11:17 pm

When I saw the dropdown for the category, I had to sit and think about it for a minute. I ended up classifying my problem as a love life problem. But, as my subject suggests, there really isn't a love life. I'm a junior. I play varsity soccer. I'm sixteen. I'm popular. I get all A's. Girls like me, but I have this problem. I can't feel anything real for girls any more. I have been led on too many times, I think. I know this sounds like I'm bitching. I'm not. I fell in love with this girl about a year ago. I just got over her, and I never had a chance with her. I'm not good-looking, and she was absolutely gorgeous. But now, I can't even think of her as a friend anymore. I can't feel anything for any of my old friends. All of my friends are ...

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Do I still have a chance with him?


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 10:46 pm

I believe that your first love will be the most genuine but I might just be saying that because I'm not over my ex. He's the type that acts stupid in public but when it gets to the serious stuff, he's all I could ever dream off. And my best friend thinks that too... She's waited about a year for him and he learned to like her back. I thought I would back off because I already had my chance. It's not working out for me... After we broke up we became really close friends again. We wrestle over candy, we play tricks on each other, and all that and it hurts when he doesn't talk to me but I don't want to tell him that. When we finally had a serious discussion that didn't involve jolly ranchers (lol), I got all angry and jealous and mad when he s...

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Sex and life


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 10:24 pm

ok. well i have this bf and he is like the type who will keep asking for sex but he seems pleased if i don't talk about it that much. So I am wondering is he having sex with other woman or does he respect my desicion and doesn't do anything with other girls???

P.S. Every night we hang up the phone, when we don't get into a fight which we barely do, he tells me he loves me...

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how can i end things without hurting him to much?


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 10:12 pm

Im female 15 and from scotland. I resently discovered that i had my feelings confused between my boyfriends and his best mate. I love my boyfriend he's sweet kind and generous but i with the realisation that my lust was completely directed at his best mate (who is currently going out with my bestfriend). I desided that i should end it with him, but how? i dont want him to hate me forever there might evan be hope to be friends, how can i end things without hurting him to much? And with out the cheesey line "can we still be friends?"

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what should i do?i cheated


Posted Friday August 7 2009, 10:12 pm

i just told my boyfriend that I've been with for a year and three months that i made out with my ex who he hates and he broke up with me he took me back but still doesn't know how he can ever trust me again what should i do?
i was with him yesterday and we were having a great time and then he just got all down
i hate the fact that i cheated on him and i know he would never do it to me
i don't know why i did it
i don't have any feelings for my ex anymore i lost those feelings when i broke up with him
please help me?

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