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he wants to kiss me....or not?
hey (: i'm 19 years old female.
so i like this guy, well actually we're best friends. and last night i was hanging out with him at our friends house and we both left at the same time and we ended up talking outside for like a half hour and like he kept getting close to my face, kind of like he wanted to kiss me. he kept giving me hugs, and stuff like that but i THINK he wanted to kiss me? the thing is i think he's scared. and i just wish he would make a move if he wanted to kiss me! because i'm not just going to kiss him, because what if he wasn't even thinking about kissing me!?
ahhhh what to do!
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ive had this before too! lol
if you guys really are close friends, next time he gives those signals, and gets really close to your face, make it easy for him by saying something cute, like
"hey, if you wanna kiss me, do it already." and smile =]
he'll say 1 of 2 things.
1. "ok. ive been wanting to, but wasnt sure if it was ok..." and then kiss you.
OR
2. "What? I dont want to kiss you..."
(at that time you say, "ok then back away from my face just a bit, silly!" and smile)
either way, make it easy on him and smile. it will make him feel more comfortable.
another clue, next time you two are hanging out and he gets close, look at his eyes. If he seems to be staring at your mouth or lips alot, chances are he reaaaly wants to kiss you.
have fun and good luck!! email me if you need anything, or to let me know how things go!
stephanie.ellick@gmail.com
steph 21 =]
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He most probably does want to kiss you if he was giving you those signals..guys are often terrified of girls at the beginning of any potential relationship :]
Ok well not so much terrified as extremely nervous
He's probably scared about what you may think because you two have been best friends.. he doesn't want to ruin the relationship but is more scared of what you'd think.
I'd say talk to him and see if he keeps hinting towards being more than friends. If he does then make sure you show interest and don't be afraid to bite the bullet and tell him how you feel.. guys are often clueless so don't worry about showing signs which most girls would consider obvious signs of affection or attraction.
Bottom line, go for it! It sounds like you have an exciting journey ahead, but remember to keep communication open at all times and everything will be fine :) Talk to him, spend time with him, see how things go and good luck!
AND SMIIILE! =]
Hope to have helped..
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