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Movie boyfriend
I hate answering guy questions on here, but I'm stuck. I was wondering if anyone else has been in this situation before too?
There's this guy, Ben. We've been friends for years but recently started hanging out. Whenever we watch a movie, he'll put his arms around me, hold my hand, rub my side, or I'll fall asleep curled up in his lap. As soon as the movie is over, so is the romance. I thought maybe he liked me, but when I talked to him about it, it scared him off and we didn't talk for weeks. He came over tonight, and once again the movie thing happened. His friends are there, my friends are there. Everyone's seen it, but no one is able to tell me- is this guy into me or is this some sort of movie relationship?
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He is definetly into you, there's no doubt about it. But something is holding him back and making him lose his confidence. During movies, it's qiet and non committed, nothing is expected and that probably makes him more comfortable and braver. Because like, when whatching movies you get lost in the moment and he could get carried away without BEING in a relationship. My guess is ? .. He's scared of commitment. I mean, he's doing this stuff without even noticing which means he's really into you and the fact that he does it infront of yours and his friends is already a step in the right direction, he's not hiding it from everyone else, just himself. So next time he comes over your house, try bringing it up again, but more playfully.. say something like, "so why do you hold my hand during the movie, it's okay I know it's harmless ;]" then wink. haha. because if you take the seriousness out of it, he's most likely not going to be like WTFICANTDOTHIS. Rather than you just coming out and saying, "during the movie yu act like you like me, what's up ? do you like me ?" yuh know ? There's different approaches to different situations. BUt if you don't think that will help, get one of your friends or his firends to ask him about it.. somebodies bound to get the information out of him.
good luck and have fun ! tell me how it goes :] hope i helped, xox.
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Their is definitley something going on between you too and I believe it goes further than just movies. While he's watching movies with you this is his confidence at a high. Ask him once more about this but while watching the movie. Use a low seductive tone so he's not intimidated. Be brave. Maybe even try for a kiss. It seems to me if you want this to go anywhere you have to take control.
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