13/m
ok so im 13 and since sometime last yeaer i have had pubes but its getting really bushy i reckon and i want to trim it but not really shave it all off i dont really want to talk to anyone i know about it cause it would be pretty weird...yea
so would it be normal or ok if i was to trim the pubes with scissors
thanks
ps i know its weird
Coming from a 13 year old female I wanted to say it is perfectly normal. In fact girls like a shaved or trimmed penis more than one which is hairy. I strongly reccomend considering to shave it.
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ok so say someone has sex and the guy cums in you a little bit. The last time you got your period was on the third of july. until july 10 very normal and what not until the 16 of july you get something thats light brown and sorta red not that heavy and that goes on for a while then its sorta heavy and red and then it ends on july 24. you have sex and havnt gotten your period in the month of agust yet. is that normal? if you are prego what are great sighns of that in the first week or two?
Trust me if you were pregnet nothing the slightest bit bloody would come out of you. The brown you saw was merely dry blood and is quite normal. As for the weird cycle, everyone has an irregular period every once and a while.
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I hate answering guy questions on here, but I'm stuck. I was wondering if anyone else has been in this situation before too?
There's this guy, Ben. We've been friends for years but recently started hanging out. Whenever we watch a movie, he'll put his arms around me, hold my hand, rub my side, or I'll fall asleep curled up in his lap. As soon as the movie is over, so is the romance. I thought maybe he liked me, but when I talked to him about it, it scared him off and we didn't talk for weeks. He came over tonight, and once again the movie thing happened. His friends are there, my friends are there. Everyone's seen it, but no one is able to tell me- is this guy into me or is this some sort of movie relationship?
Their is definitley something going on between you too and I believe it goes further than just movies. While he's watching movies with you this is his confidence at a high. Ask him once more about this but while watching the movie. Use a low seductive tone so he's not intimidated. Be brave. Maybe even try for a kiss. It seems to me if you want this to go anywhere you have to take control.
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Does anyone know how to get a perfect score on Surviving High School 9.2 Football Tryouts? thanks.
I love that game!! And yeah. go with derek instead of shane for the tryouts and be nice to the girl on the football field.
sorry i dont have my cell with me but is their a particular spot where your not sure what to do?? like tell me the things u know for sure and i will try to help you again
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that makes sense, but its been a month, and things have started to cool down like you said. but, now, i actually think he (eric) likes me. it might sound weird, but its true. he looks at me all the time, and stuff. but i dont know how to find out. what should i do now?
Hi and thanks for asking me directly!
Well I think you should first at least start trying to hang out with him. Plan a trip with him and let's say 3 other friends to go to the movies or something else like that. Try to really get to know him and hang out with him at this event. Then ask him to hang out one on one but try to make it seem like just friend's not a date. if you feel like you like he likes you ask him if he does and he'll probley tell you he feels the same way!
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14/f
i was wondering what everyone was looking forward to for the twilight movie coming out on the 21st. what are your ideas. did you like the commercials?
Oh definitley! I love the books! But the thing is the character's aren't what I thought they would be. Honestly I don't think Robert Pattison (he plays Edward) is that good looking. I guess I sound a little mean. :)
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he called me by my friend's name 3 times yesterday at school. He had been flirting with my friend before this, a lot. both of them had. He is thinks leona lewis is fine and hott, and he told my friend, infront of my face, that she looked like leona lewis. It was the most uncomfortable thing ever because he is obsessed with leona. We don't hang out accept school because he can't hang with girls until he's 16. I'm so sick of him. Are these reasons good enough to dump him?
If you honestly don't feel like you like him anymore, then you should. There's not a single hint of doubt in your statement that you shouldn't breakup with him. If you feel like he's a pig and not good enough for you then do it.
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Winter is coming up, and I would like to find cute scarves. I have searched ae, aero, hollister, delias (even though I am not fond of those stores) and I have searched urban outfitters, nordstroms, macy's and dillards and have yet to find one that appeals to my liking. I saw one at abercrombie, but it is way overpriced
http://www.abercrombie.com/webapp/wcs/stores/servlet/product_10051_10901_452672_-1_12252_12203
This is the type of scarf (the style) that I am looking for, but I can't afford to spend 40$ on one.
Does anyone know where I can find cute scarves. I am looking for solid colors and plaids.
Thanks!
http://www.urbanoutfitters.com/urban/catalog/productdetail.jsp;jsessionid=C8F208501184C306B1CE1D928C0F4DE5.app11-node7?itemdescription=true&itemCount=60&id=13579743&parentid=W_ACC_SCARVES&sortProperties=&navCount=35&navAction=poppush&color=&cm_mmc=Performics-_-Affiliates-_-College%20Fashion%20.net-_-shredded%20square%20scarf
thats the best i could find for a cheap scarf!
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is it okay for a girl to watch porn? is it like illegal to watch it online and stuff?
Don't worry girls and boys both find porn great! Online porn is not illeigal unless it's one that was like in X rated theaters and you din't pay for it. And I would reccomend don't watch gay porn. lol
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so me and my boyfriend just started having (protected) sex. i was a virgin before, and we've done it like 3 times but the first time it didn't go all the way in, the second time it did go all the way in and it hurt but it was bearable. but the third time it hurt so bad i bled. will it get better? and is there any way to make it more comfortable for the time being?
thanks a ton =]
alright well if it bled this time that means the worst is over. Your "cherry" got popped. That means that was actually your first time having real sex. When your cherry is popped that means the penis went fully into the it. So now that the worst is done with it should be much more pleasurable. If it hurts again than please as me a question directly
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I wanna change my image to something punkish because I listen to metal but I dress like any plain girl, jeans and a t shirt. I wanna start being more punk and grow my hair out and stuff. I also want to start designing my own clothes and stuff so how can I learn to do that?
wow that's pretty cool! well i would start off purchasing clothes at Hot Topic. It's a very punkish rebel store and besides having clothes they also sell hard core metal albums in there! As for the designing your own clothes, you should probley learn the basic's first. Try signing up for a Family Consumer Science class in that area at your school. If they don't have one (which is pretty unlikely) than try looking up some local classes.
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k, i asked out this beautiful guy at my school and he first said "i dont know" 2 weeks later, i asked him again, and he said "i dont know, maybe" finally, another 2-3 weeks later, i asked him and he said "no" i told him i was sorry for bugging him and all, and then he told all of his friends about it, and now they call me a stalker. on the other hand, there is this other guy that i hate, and he tells everybody that i like him, and i dont. while he is calling me disgusting, one of his friends is telling everyone that i asked out the guy in the beginning, and they all tease me about it.
about the beautiful guy, he is confusing me! he said that he hated me, but if he hated me, then why would he say "maybe" when i asked him out, and why does he ALWAYS talk to me on the bus, and in the hallway? i found out that he likes a girl named julie, and i told her, and she said that he is ugly and that she hated him. im really good friends with his sister, and i know for sure that he likes julie. what should i do? i like the guy, (eric) and he likes julie (she hates him) another guy (mike) says that i like him (i dont) and everyone else teases me cuz i like the beautiful guy (eric) -what the heck am i supposed to do? should i ignore him? try to talk to him? love him? hate him? HELP!!
Alright I believe he said maybe because he didn't want to come right out and say no. He probley didn't want to hurt your feelings. He [probley than said he hated you to act cool in front of his friends. Trust me im good friends with lots of guys and they do that sorta crap all the time. And the guy who said that about you liking him probley likes you. I know it sounds really 3rd grade but it's probley right. I think right now about the whole eric thing you just need to back off for awhile. Wait about 2 weeks and then start tlking to him again. By then thing's will probley cool down with the whole teasing and then you can try to take it SLOW.
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i'm a junior olympian( i am to young to play on the olympic team but im one of the best in the nation) im 13 and i play waterpolo.
i travel alout so i see some girls that i find atractive. i have made out with a few,but when they wana get close i cut them off. am i a man whore or just an idiot. i use to really love a girl 2 years of dating now she is with my bestfriend...
Ok well you want me to tell you the truth? You are a man whore! A love sick man whore though. You make out with girls because you find them attractive. Then you say you don't want a relationship. See guy's have trouble finding their true feelings. But of course they do know they feel the need for girls. But the reason you don't a relationship is because your still stuck on your ex. You don't want to get close to someone because you don't want to hurt. This is what I say to do. Try a relationship. You may end up enjoying it. That's all I can do.
P.S OMG!! I'm a junior olympian too! I'm on a travel volleyball team that's so far # 1 in the country and I've already gotten numerous job offers. I'm 13 too!! See you at the olympics!! Lol!!
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15/f
So Im going out with this kid, hes awesome, and I know im ready to kiss him, and I want to make out with him but im afraid I wont know how to do it, Ive never made out with anyone before, and im kinda scared, he plans on making out on Thursday which is 3 days from now and I dont know how to get over this.
alright it can be very scary your first time! don't worry though. it really does come naturally. the only thing i can say is remember to breath through your nose, slightly start closing your eyes when your leaning over and fully close them when your lips are touching, and try not to stick your entire tounge in his mouth. the rest will just come to you!
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hi, i am a virgen , and my boyfriend wants to have anal sex, if he cums in my ass can i get pregnant?
You can;t but it's extremaley uncomfortable. Like it kills. Trust me.
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we cheat? why do people cheat? is their any way to jusify cheating? i just want the people on advicenator and their imput on cheating. not just cheating is wrong and thats that. :) think more about it. thank you.
With younger people like teens most of the time it's because they're other gf/bf won't do the what they might want to do with them. Ex: sex
Older People: Ex: Married. It occurs alot during an mid life crisis. They feel that they need to be more than what they already are. They want what they can't have. They find it exciting.
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Ok. I know everyone is going to say that I am to young for this. Well I am a 14/f and I had sex for the very first time. I am not on the pill and I think I might be pregnant. My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years and i thought i was ready. We used a condom but he put it on inside out. It has been 2 weeks after we had sex and i am feeling uncomfortable. I have not had my period yet and i have been feeling sick everyday. I do not know if i am pregnant and i do not know how to tell my boyfriend please help!
Alright before you do anything hasty sit it out a week. If you start having werid eating habits or you start vomiting buy a pregnency test from your local pharmacey. If it turns out you are pregnet you have 2 things to do. 1. Tell your parents. I would probley tell my mother first because it will just be way less awkward. Chances are she will be angry but eventually she'll understand.
2. Tell your boyfriend. Trust me, this will be WAY less awkward. Explain it all to him and if you both have really been togeher for 2 years i think he'll be very understanding and supportive.
~~~~~~TeEnTrOuBlEsArEmE~~~~~~
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ok i just got off myspace and saw this guy who use to like me ALOT and me alittle him i saw him with his girlfriendf i guess i shouldnt feel bad or sad because i didnt like him that much but it hurt me to see a pic of his new girl should i feel this way i'm confused the only reason i stop talkin to him because we kissed and i didnt feel anything why do u think i feel this way
Yeah that happens alot. I think if you didn't fell anything when you kissed though it wasn't meant to be. Just remember there are plenty more guys out there. What your feeling is just leftover feeling from then. But remember this is now! Flirt with a few more guys and you'll forget all about it!
~~~~~~TeEnTrOuBlEsArEmE~~~~~~
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I recently had my hair cut and it looks soooo bad!!! So my freind suggested hair extensions but when i see girls with extensions they look so fake and the hair looks dry and old. So i was wondering if u know which type of extension is good and what is the bst hair 2 have atleast till my hair grows back as I cant go out in public with my hair looking like a mans hair cut! Thank u Sophie
Aww I totally feel for you! Alright when it comes to hair extensions you really need to do your research before you make any harsh decisions. Hair extensions usually cost alot and to tell you the truth usually the one's that cost more are the better one's. Try to find a salon in your town or nearby and check it out before you go to it. Look at what kind of people go in and out of it and see how their hair looks. Then if you feel it seems good then ask for an appointment. Then ask the stylist to show you the hair that she will be weaving in. Most of the time you will have to get your hair dyed a coler that is similar to yours so that it will be a good match. If they want to dye your haitr usually it's a good sign that they're pretty good at what they do. I hope this helps!
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on saturday, i got to hang out with my boyfriend for the day. i haven't seen him in 4 months. when we first started out our relationship, i promised myself i wouldn't get in over my head, and i wouldn't get too attached. i have had boyfriends like him, where they tell me that they are a player, and don't want me to get hurt. i usually ignore it. tell them to not get too attached.
but when i saw him yesterday, the way he held me, the way he pressed his nose to mine, and the way he carefully held my tiny hand in his giant one, made me fall for him. way too deep.
later on, when i got home and he got to his, i was emailing him. i noticed he was giving me one word answers, so i asked him what was wrong. he was honest, and straight to the point, and he said "i like someone else..."
when he said that, my heart dropped. i called him to ask what had happened between when i saw him just a couple of hours ago, and then, he said that he liked her FOR A WEEK.
this has happened to me multiple times before. i don't usually react. i don't usually care. but this time, i was screaming at him, saying sorry to him, crying, throwing up, begging him not to go, wanting him to die, wondering what i did wrong, and i literally lost it last night. my whole world felt like it was crashing down, over something stupid. and i knew it was stupid then. luckily all of my friends helped, and i stopped crying and talked to him again, and this time, he didn't even want to be my friend. because he was "trying to rid [himself] from all temptations"
thats when i got MAD at him.
if he doesn't like me like that anymore, why the fuck am i a temptation?
i just want to be his friend. he was and still is one of my best friends. i just feel so confused. so lost. so alone. so cold. so heartbroken.
help?
(other than "he's a dick!" "there's other fish in the sea". give me REAL advice.)
aww honey i feel so bad for you. It looks to me like this is your first guy you have really felt something for. Well I'm trying not to say there are other fish in the sea but it's hard not to! I think you need to follow the 5 steps to handeling a break-up. I really hope this helps!
1. Mope. -Go ahead eat chocolate, watch sad movies, and cry all you want. You deserve to do whatever you want.
2. Stalk him- If your not already doing it look repeatedly at his myspace and stare at him in class.
3. Clean-up- Throw out everything that reminds you of him. Pictures, texts, emails, EVERYTHING
4. Flirt- Look at the cute guy sitting next to you. Your single and on the prowl! Go party without having to worry about other guys!
5. Be happy and love yourself-self-explanatory
~~~~~~TeEnTrOuBlEsArEmE~~~~~~
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