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I might be pregnant ugh
Ok. I know everyone is going to say that I am to young for this. Well I am a 14/f and I had sex for the very first time. I am not on the pill and I think I might be pregnant. My boyfriend and i have been dating for 2 years and i thought i was ready. We used a condom but he put it on inside out. It has been 2 weeks after we had sex and i am feeling uncomfortable. I have not had my period yet and i have been feeling sick everyday. I do not know if i am pregnant and i do not know how to tell my boyfriend please help!
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oh wow.
chill out.
id like to say youre being ridiculous but this is exactly how i felt after my first time.
its very unlikely that you are pregnat if you used a condom.
and your sick feeling is just your nerves, so try to relax or you will keep feeling like that.
wait until you get your period.
or at least until youre supposed to.
and if you are more than a week late, go to walgreens and get a pregnancy test.
then you will know for sure.
theres pretty much nothing else you can do.
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ahh i had gotten pregnant at 15. you are probably just stressing out about thinking you may be pregnant. calm down and relax. you missed your period probably from stress. take a pregnancy test in a few more weeks. if it is positive then tell your boyfriend. tell him you were feeling sorta sick so you took a test and it came out positive. after telling your boyfriend its to telling your parents telling your mom first is ALOT easier than telling your father. but really depends on your relationship with each parent.
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Alright before you do anything hasty sit it out a week. If you start having werid eating habits or you start vomiting buy a pregnency test from your local pharmacey. If it turns out you are pregnet you have 2 things to do. 1. Tell your parents. I would probley tell my mother first because it will just be way less awkward. Chances are she will be angry but eventually she'll understand.
2. Tell your boyfriend. Trust me, this will be WAY less awkward. Explain it all to him and if you both have really been togeher for 2 years i think he'll be very understanding and supportive.
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Honestly, its probably just the stress getting to you.
the more you think about it, and stress over the situation you will miss your period.
its happened to me.
so just take a deep breath...and try not to think about it. im sure you will be ok.
but if you are that stressed wait another week, and take a pregnancy test...
just relax.
hope everything turns out ok!
*Bri*
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First of all you need to see if you are pregnant so get a test or see a doctor. Then if you are you need to just be upfront and honest. Sometimes stuff like this is mind over matter so you thinking you are pregnant can make you sick, so before you jump to conclusions just check and see first.
If you are, tell him you are be honest and tell your parents. Please next time be more careful. 14 is kind of young but it is your life and I can't tell you what to do so I am just asking please be responsible and consider all options before you make a final decision.
Good luck with everything. :)
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