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im confused, i NEED help!
k, i asked out this beautiful guy at my school and he first said "i dont know" 2 weeks later, i asked him again, and he said "i dont know, maybe" finally, another 2-3 weeks later, i asked him and he said "no" i told him i was sorry for bugging him and all, and then he told all of his friends about it, and now they call me a stalker. on the other hand, there is this other guy that i hate, and he tells everybody that i like him, and i dont. while he is calling me disgusting, one of his friends is telling everyone that i asked out the guy in the beginning, and they all tease me about it.
about the beautiful guy, he is confusing me! he said that he hated me, but if he hated me, then why would he say "maybe" when i asked him out, and why does he ALWAYS talk to me on the bus, and in the hallway? i found out that he likes a girl named julie, and i told her, and she said that he is ugly and that she hated him. im really good friends with his sister, and i know for sure that he likes julie. what should i do? i like the guy, (eric) and he likes julie (she hates him) another guy (mike) says that i like him (i dont) and everyone else teases me cuz i like the beautiful guy (eric) -what the heck am i supposed to do? should i ignore him? try to talk to him? love him? hate him? HELP!!
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Alright I believe he said maybe because he didn't want to come right out and say no. He probley didn't want to hurt your feelings. He [probley than said he hated you to act cool in front of his friends. Trust me im good friends with lots of guys and they do that sorta crap all the time. And the guy who said that about you liking him probley likes you. I know it sounds really 3rd grade but it's probley right. I think right now about the whole eric thing you just need to back off for awhile. Wait about 2 weeks and then start tlking to him again. By then thing's will probley cool down with the whole teasing and then you can try to take it SLOW.
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Okay, as for this guy mike who says that you like him, just ignore him, the teasing will go away in about 2 weeks, it ALWAYS does go away. I've been in a situation worse, and it went away in 3 weeks, so yours should go away momentarily. As far as Eric goes, GET OVER HIM... You shouldn't like a guy who doesn't like you back, or has to think about it before he gives you an answer, that is degrating to me. Don't beg, don't cry, let him go, someone else will come along that is better than him. As for Julie & Eric. Carma is the best way I can give you this news. Eric embarassed you by telling the entire school about you asking him out, calling you a "stalker" and all right? Well, a higher power has called Carma on Eric. He has embarassed you and now Julie will embarass him. you just sit back and let nature take it's course. Julie is going to reject him and than he will be the laughing-stock of the school. Pay-back is than served, let it go and find someone new, that's all the advice I have for you.
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