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sex. ouch
so me and my boyfriend just started having (protected) sex. i was a virgin before, and we've done it like 3 times but the first time it didn't go all the way in, the second time it did go all the way in and it hurt but it was bearable. but the third time it hurt so bad i bled. will it get better? and is there any way to make it more comfortable for the time being?
thanks a ton =]
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take it slow and luburcate it. lotin, spit anything to make it slide in easier and bleeding is because he poped your cherry.
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just give it time, and like the other person said, lubricate. This helped my sex life. Of course, im only 14 but still. It took like another 7-8 times for her until she really started to like it. Just wait it out.
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You need to be lubricated a.k.a "wet" to make sex less painful or friction and trusting not hurt as much. That's why adults have foreplay to lead into the actual act.
Over time it will get better. Some women don't produce enough natural lubrication so using an artificial one or KY lubricants or warming gel may work.
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alright well if it bled this time that means the worst is over. Your "cherry" got popped. That means that was actually your first time having real sex. When your cherry is popped that means the penis went fully into the it. So now that the worst is done with it should be much more pleasurable. If it hurts again than please as me a question directly
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yes it will get better. and just to make it hurt less have him figure you before it, not just go straight to sex
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Seeing as how your just starting to "loosen" up "down there". Well, the more you do it, the less it should hurt. The more times you and your boyfriend tries, the more it will feel more comfortable trust me. I'm not 100% sure if this will work but maybe you should try a lubricant until it feels more bearable for you.
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