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Okay so me and my ex were best friends before we started going out like couldn't get any closer. Then we decided to take it further and we started going out. We were together for just under a year and were in love with each other. We split up just because it felt like we were just friends like the romance was kind of gone we're 17 and decided that it would be best to see what else is out there.
He said a few months after we split up that i was apparently "obsessed" with him because i was a bit jelous cos he was flirting with my friends and was trying to stay friends with him but now i've met a guy and we're just hooking up but like we won't get into a relationship which is fine...But now my ex has started talking to me and wants to get back together with me and i was considdering it butlike everyone said i'd be really stupid too but i do still love him =S i don't no what to do...
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Do what YOU want to do. I understand people can influence your decision..but, you have to do what makes you happy.
Since you both were young in the relationship, it's understandable how things worked out. But, maybe your ex realized he wants to be back with you?
Do you love your ex? If so, then go for it!
However, it was very rude of him to call you "obsessed" and hasn't talked to you much..but, some guys just want space, maybe thats what he needed for a little while. If you think it will work out with him this time, then I see nothing wrong with that.
The guy you're hooking up with? You even said "we won't get in to a relationship" and you seem fine with that, so that's not holding you back from going with your ex.
Basically, do what you feel is right for you. You seem to love your ex still, so maybe you should try the the relationship again! Just make sure it's the right decision and he doesn't want a relationship with you for the wrong reasons (Sex, Boredom, Just wanting someone) and I'm sure you both will be fine :)
Good luck
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