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cheating and boredom
what if your boyfriend stops calling like he use to when you first started out and hes moody and standoffish and bites your hrad off all the time and he acts like he doesnt want to talk to you or be arond you and he doesnt want you to touch him sometimes an d you think hes cheating because he comes with excuses to not want to be around you or do anything togehter
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He might be; just start asking where he is goinn or just start askin questionss. and justt see whats really up(:
but then again you should just have a serious talk to him and see whats goin down; like.. maybe he just wants a break? asking questions never hurts?(:
goodluck
-sidney
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Maybe.. but it could be other reasons too.
Do you see each other quite often? One of the main reasons for this happening is not having enough space.
I see my boyfriend pretty much all day every day. I love it, but the odd day I feel like I need a few hours to be on my own, just to relax and do whatever I want to do.. and if I don't get time alone, I can get in a mood sometimes snap at him.. but I don't really mean it.
If you don't feel you see each other too much, then I advise you to just talk to him and ask him what's up. He probably has his reasons.. maybe he's a bit stressed at the moment.. maybe he's not entirely happy with how the relationship is turning out.. but if you guys talk sensibly about the situation, you can try and make it better.
Why don't you plan a day together, where you do things you haven't done before and make it romantic, to possibly relight the flame that was once there.
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He probably thinks you talk too much.
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There's many possibilities. He could be stressed, he could feel like he needs some space (a lot of guys feel that way for some reason), and/or it's possible he is cheating.
Some signs a guy is cheating:
-Over protection of his cell phone (Acts jumpy when he gets a text, Hides it from you..etc.)
-Unexpected and unexplained nights away.
-Accusing you of being unfaithful (like asking where you've been, and who you were with).
-Is moody with you.
-Not interested in what you have to say.
-Shower's more often (to hide scent's).
etc.
Basically, if you have a gut feeling he's cheating, you're probably right.
If you'd want to, maybe try confronting him.
Good luck. Hope I helped! :)
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you don't have to rate me I'm just here to say that I totally agree with "ohitscassidy". That is exactly what I would have said :)
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there could be 3 things going on
1. Is that your over reacting and he thinks you are suffocating him with to much attention and just wants some alone time ( witch isn't the case if your not the crazy jealous wanting to know what your boyfriend is doing at every waking moment, witch im sure your not )
2. is that he is either wanting to brake up with you but is having a hard time doing it because he doesn't want to hurt you.
3. he is cheating on you, in witch you can do better than that anyways.. even if he isn't cheating by the way you describe this guy.. you can do better.
goodluck
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