Hi! My name is Sidney; Im here to answer every question you need to have answered(: I will get every detail down; and be straight up. So, if you need help or have questions i would love to help you; so what are you waiting for!
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Gender: Female
Location: California
Occupation: school;
Age: 18
Member Since: August 10, 2009
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what if your boyfriend stops calling like he use to when you first started out and hes moody and standoffish and bites your hrad off all the time and he acts like he doesnt want to talk to you or be arond you and he doesnt want you to touch him sometimes an d you think hes cheating because he comes with excuses to not want to be around you or do anything togehter (link)
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He might be; just start asking where he is goinn or just start askin questionss. and justt see whats really up(:
but then again you should just have a serious talk to him and see whats goin down; like.. maybe he just wants a break? asking questions never hurts?(:
goodluck
-sidney
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21/f. He's 24/m. We've have been involved for four years. REALLY long story short, it's been a rough road for us. He used to be emotionally abusive, but he made a conscious decision to change. I agreed to let the past go, and forgive him. It was great for a long time, and despite his family hating me, we were happy.
Recently, I got a job in my field. Instead of being happy for me when I told him about the pay, he said, "That's it? You should turn it down."
Now when I try to tell him funny stories about work, he says "sweet" with no inflection, and changes the subject. He makes a point of letting me know I'm "not funny" when I try to joke around, or he thinks I'm serious when I'm not. He suddenly doesn't understand me anymore.
It's become increasingly obvious to me that he doesn't care. About anything, including himself. He's studying for the MCAT, and it's all he CLAIMS he ever does. I have absolutely no objection to him studying, and I'd be happy he was doing it if it was really what he wanted. Instead, he's doing it to appease his parents, and I hate him for it. He doesn't have the balls to stand up to them and say he doesn't want to do it. Of course, he doesn't know what he wants to do anyway.
I've lost respect for him, I'm becoming less attracted to him. He's starting to say little nasty things to me, and I just don't want to put up with it.
I think he just doesn't belong in my life anymore...but how do I tell him? In person, I know, but I have to get him to stop "studying" long enough for me to say something. How do I do THAT when I never see him?
Should I give him a chance to redeem himself? (link)
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I agree; it does sound like he hasnt changed at all.
Its hard to let someone go that you have been with for so long and gone through so much with;
but theres a point where you relize that you need to do whats best for you. And i believe that if you follow this road that youve been taking for four years; its going to lead you to a dead end.
You need to let him go and you need to go and do your thing. You need a better man that will treat you with the respect that you really do deserve.
Just tell him everything thats been going on. But sit him down. And talk to him about. and say lets take a break for a little while. and then when we both think one another has changed; we will talk.(:
good luck.
-sidney
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13/f
i am getting my hair cut and my hair is so thick and very curly. i have gotten it layered but my hair is still very poofy.. do you have any suggestions or better looks for my hair??
kjam21 (link)
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well you can get your hair thinned;
go to a salon and ask about it(:
goodluck
-sidney
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Hi guys, my friend (girl) is turning 16, and is having a party. What are some good cheap birthday gifts? We are friends, but not best friends if you know what I mean, so I would like something not pricey at all. Something under 20 dollars...under 15 if possible. 10 dollars would be great haha. Thanks!!! (link)
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okay; no one listens to cds. theres a thing called ipod lol.
i doubt shes gunna wanna read? lol
and girls HATE when guys buy sunglasses because they usually end up picking kinds they dont like haha.
but; guys do tend to buy good CHEAP earrings?
and neklaces?
a movie? what movies does she like? haha
goodluck
-sidney(:
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It's soo annoying. This guy who I'm friends wit, on friday, said he'd text me on Sunday. So, I was waiting for a text..and got nothing. I hate always having to text first. Why do guys do that!?!?! (link)
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honestly; u dont wanna sound too desperate hun;
just wait until he says somthing so that it doesnt sound like u needed him to say somthing.
let me point out that this isnt easy at all haha.
its hard not to say anything but just try(:
goodluck.
-sidney
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20/f So...I am absolutely crazy about my best friend.
we have been best friends for about 6 years and i have had feelings for him off and on throughout that entire time. But right now he has a gf. she is super controlling and hates me cuz we are so close (like, we finish each others sentences and it drives her nuts). he says he wants to dump her, but then chickens out.
I am so crazy about this guy...and even though he has a gf, i think he cares about me too. I want to be with him....what do i do? (link)
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I had the exact same prolem...
try to take a little step out of the friend zone? just let him see what hes missing out on. Make him see how bad his girlfriend is. start flirting; and when things are chill tell him u like him. i would give anything to go back in time and do that=/
good luck.
-sidney
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I play volleyball in college and we have 2 practices a day & conditioning after the last practice. we have about an hour & a half in between practices...I'm wondering what is the best thing to do between the practices in order to have the most energy for the next practice. (link)
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Water is a good idea to drink inbetween practices.(:
But when you are planning on doing an activity you dont always want to eat before it; this might cause side aces=/.
I would suggest bringing water and an energy bar?
They keep you going(:
-sidney
goodluck!
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My friend can get on my last nerves. Anything exciting I tell her s do she has to have something exciting all of a sudden too, she is also a pretty big liar.How do I solve this. (link)
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Just be straight up with ur friend;
just honestly tell ur friend whats up and lay it down whats goin on. No one can stand fake people. :D
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My senior pictures are coming up. My face isn't fat but for some reason in all my school pictures my face looks fat and huge. and only in school pictures because all the ones on my myspace and stuff aren't like that. What can i do so it wont look like that in my senior pictures, i'd really like for them to be good. (link)
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oh! This worked for me;
Heres whatcha do; Lift your chin up then sort of move your head to the side. (not too much) And always sit up straight. If you do that; it will stretch the skin to make your face look thinner.
goodluck hun(:
-sidney
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my boyfriend sent me a text saying, "btw really random but you have the sofest lipes ever created"
... hahaa so is that good ? (link)
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Thats very good(:
That prolly means he wants more. lol
-sidney
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