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But he's my best friend.....
20/f So...I am absolutely crazy about my best friend.
we have been best friends for about 6 years and i have had feelings for him off and on throughout that entire time. But right now he has a gf. she is super controlling and hates me cuz we are so close (like, we finish each others sentences and it drives her nuts). he says he wants to dump her, but then chickens out.
I am so crazy about this guy...and even though he has a gf, i think he cares about me too. I want to be with him....what do i do?
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I had the exact same prolem...
try to take a little step out of the friend zone? just let him see what hes missing out on. Make him see how bad his girlfriend is. start flirting; and when things are chill tell him u like him. i would give anything to go back in time and do that=/
good luck.
-sidney
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Your question perfectly described my life a year ago. I told him in June that I liked him and he liked me too so we hung out all summer without his crazy girlfriend knowing. They broke up in October and we started this relationship which I thought was perfect and so did he for a while but once it came down to getting intimate he thought it was getting akward despite admitting to fantisising about it. So we decided to call it quits. I'm rambling, but that's my story of falling in love with my best friend.I'm not saying your situation will be the same. My advice would be to tell him. If he's on the edge of breaking up with her then he obviously knows the relationship isn't right. Maybe he doesn't know what he could have(you) which is why I deffinately think you should tell him. Its a risk but it could be a great reward. Although I'm in a new relationship now that's picture perfect the time that I was with my best friend were some of the best times of my life and we're still great friends.
Go for it!
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Best you can do is tell him how you feel,don't try to break him up with his girl cause then if you tell him you like him after he breaks up with her he'll know what you were trying to do,just try and tell him how you feel he might like you too,you never know.
goo luck.
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