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will time say so???
i been with my gf for 2 months and she says she loves me. i told her its not love, we are getting 2 know each other love will deverlope if we meant 4 each other, time will say so. was that right?
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I agree with waht you're saying, but sometimes girls don't really care whether its REALLY love, they just like to believe it is, so I would just go along with it instead of telling her "its not love" because girls really donn't want to here that. afagiguag woo goodluck :]
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me being a girl i can honestly say when girls say they love you they mean it, you can tell her you really really like her but right know your in lust not love maybe thats hoe she feels to.
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Nopers i surely don`t agree with you.. I don`t think you can tell your grilfriend how she feels about you..Maybe not love but she certainly does have some sort of feelings and does care..
People fall in love all the time and sometimes they don`t work out but does that mean they never loved eachother i don`t think so..
You might not feel the same way but just tell her that don`t say she doesn`t love you or something..[think of how you`d feel if somebody told you how you feel when really you know how you feel]
I`m not sayin she can say like your her soul mate or whatever but she can feel how she wants..
♥Dez
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Oh, I know you didn't tell your girlfriend that!
You can't tell girls that, it's like telling them you don't love them...!!!
=[ Boo on you.
&TiNA;
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Hope you dont get offended, but I dont agree with you there. First of all, it is certainly possible that it was/is real love. I certainly have fallen in love within that time frame and I really do think it was true love. Secondly, I dont think you can tell someone what they are feeling. It might take longer for you, not neccessarily for her.
Also there is a bit of a difference between love and being meant for each other. One is a (powerful) feeling, the other implies some sort of eternal bond. One can fall out of love...
Either way, hope all works out for you guys.
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i totally agree.. and i am so extremely grateful that i'm not the only one who feels that way! i believe that in 2 months you can't love someone.. it's just puppy love and can turn out to be real love.. and yeahh time will say so =] so you were right in my eyes .. good luck with her hon
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Sometimes people say that because that they way people do it. People automatically think if you are dating you ar ein love. If you are not truly in love then your right. But eventually love will come into the relationship. Soemtimes people do fall in love quickly but you shouldnt say if thats not truly how you feel. You will know when you are in love and time will tell.
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You probably are right but you can't be sure. She could have truly loved you. Some people are mature enough to realize love faster than others. You could have been right but it probably hurt her. Explain to her that all you meant was love really takes time. I'm sure she'll be OK.
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it's true that love takes time, like you said, but it might have hurt her feelings when you said that , since it was probably not the answer she was looking for. if she said she loved you, that's probably how she felt & it probably hurt her that you didn't feel the same way. however, you were right .. love does take time. (: hope i helped! <3
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Hey, I think that was the right thing to do. Love takes time like you said. She might just really really really like you. Cait ♥
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If she says she loves you, it's probably true. There are different kinds of love. She probably didn't mean she wanted to get married right now and be together forever. She probably just meant, "I trust you, I like being with you, you make me happy." And you don't KNOW how she feels--only she does. I don't think it was neccessarily "wrong", but it wasn't entirely "right". You should talk it out with her.
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You did not specify your age, or any other details so I am just going to go by what you have said. It sounds like you are completely right on what you said. Love is deffinately something that takes time, and so many people just say it without really meaning it. She may think she loves you, but really it may just be that she really likes you and she is just really happy. So I don't think you should discourage her from saying it, but if you do not think it is the appropriate time to say it back, then don't. But, it really sounds like you said the right thing to her. I mean there is no right or wrong there, but it sounds like you know what you are talking about.
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