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Ex Boyfriend
Ok!! Well I just broke up with my boyfriend!! And about 5 minutes later after we broke up he called me beggin me to take me back!! And I Love him But im talkin to another guy right now that i've been with before!! I dont know what to do PLEASE HELP ME!!!
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This type of situation is always very difficult I find, however I don't know if you should, as other people are suggesting, follow you're heart, because that usually means you're going to be impulsive. Being impulsive in a situation like this isn't ideal because it means you're going to end up chosing whoever you prefer at that particular point in time and not overall or in the long term.
However this does not mean that you cannot figure it out for yourself. What i would suggest is that you take a step back from the situation. One way to do this is to imagine that it is someone else who has this problem...on this site for example and you are attempting to help them out. So imagine I was that person, what questions would you ask me to help me make my decision, what advice would you give me? Take those questions and advice and apply them to yourself and hopefully that should help.
I understand that all sounds a bit odd, and I'm going to add a further strange suggestion. You could also take you're question and copy it into a word document or something similar, and then answer it like I'm answering you're question right now, remembering to imagine it is not you're situation but a random person. Hopefully,if you do it willwork out in such a way that you will have you're decision made
Overall I'm hoping that if nothing else, you will take from my advice that the answer is within in you, although it should not be an impulsive decision. Also, the suggestions i made weren't just random solutions actually work, I know alot of people who work things out in this way, so its maybe worth trying.
Regardless, I hope you make a decision you are happy with, good luck
Mike =)
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If you've been with this other boy before and it didn't work out, what makes you think it will work out this time..? and if you "love" the boy you just broke up with, why did you hurt him..?
Don't be with either of them just yet. Stop, think and follow your heart.
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Who do you want to be with? Who do you like more?
If you don't wanna get back with your most recent ex, then don't. If you wanna get with the guy you're talking to now, then get with him. You can't have both though so I'd choose quick & make sure you're confident in your decision.
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Well that's pretty quick. I'm guessing that prior to the breakup you and this other guy were reminiscing about the past or something? Well Bahaima is right, you can't have both lol. Why did you guys break up? If you really love your bf you'll give him a chance, unless he did something horribly wrong then I understand. I mean, don't feel obligated to get back with him, just follow your gut feeling. Give him a second chance or re-kindle romance with that other guy you've talked to before. good luck :D
uniq
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Make up your mind, Who do you want to be with? You can't have both
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