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Sex and life
ok. well i have this bf and he is like the type who will keep asking for sex but he seems pleased if i don't talk about it that much. So I am wondering is he having sex with other woman or does he respect my desicion and doesn't do anything with other girls???
P.S. Every night we hang up the phone, when we don't get into a fight which we barely do, he tells me he loves me...
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You've just about listed all the signs of someone cheating. If you ask him and he is cheating more than likely you will not get right answer as most guys deny it anyway. I cannot tell you for sure if he is cheating or not you need to decide based on where your relationship status is. If he isn't interested in sex like someone said below me than more than likely he's lost interest in you or he is getting it somewhere eles.
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i've got to agree with the person below me.
there are some guys who will go out and cheat on their girlfriends because their not giving them sex, and then there are the guys that are genuinely nice and are willing to wait until you're ready, because they love you.
the sad thing i will tell you. my good friend, hes a guy. he's been dating his girlfriend for three years. yes, they have sex but he still wants to have sex with me. obviously, thats not happening but he tells his girlfriend he loves her, which he does but he must not be pleasured enough, sadly.
it is hard to tell with your boyfriend, since i don't know him and have never met him but next time he asks you to have sex, just say sorry babe i'm just not ready. and just see what his reaction is. if he looks totally fine with it and doesn't try getting with you right after, i'm pretty sure he's not cheating.
if he keeps bugging you about sex, and after you tell him you don't want to he seems upset or really annoyed, you will be able to tell.
afterall, if you ask i'm almost 98% positive he won't tell you the truth. what guy is going to come out and say their cheating on you with another girl whose giving it up?
tough situation. but from my conclusions i have a feeling he's a good guy and he does respect your decision, not all guys are bad (:
good luck hun! need anything else, come back! ♥ LU
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The situation differs from guy to guy. However, I'm sure you heard the whole thing about "if he's not getting it from you, he's getting it from someone else." Anythings possible. But! That doesn't relate to ALL guys.
Good guys will respect your decision and wait for you until you're ready. The other types of guys (bad boys, guys who just want sex, etc.) will cheat on you with other girls who will give them sex (easy girls).
You said that he told you he loves you. Maybe you should trust him then? If you want, have a talk with him about what's going through your mind. However, don't ever think you have to have sex with him if you don't want to. Only have it when YOU'RE ready.
Hopefully, he's a good guy who does actually love you and will respect your decision.
Good luck :) Hope I helped!
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If you think he's cheating, then ask him.
None of us are going to know because of the minimal information you just gave us, and even if you told us everything, there's no way we'd know for sure.
Communication: one of the most important things in a relationship. That means, TALK TO HIM.
--Jack
(17/m)
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