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i feel guilty about having a relationship
hey im a 14 yr old boy and i like this girl named haily. every time we hang out i feel that she can do so much better than me. its weird because i have no self confedence problems. she is really cute.
p.s. im not a shallow boy who just like girls for their bodies, i like haily for her personality. i want to pour out my feelings for her because i reallllllllllly like her but i don't think she wants anything to do with a relationship. what should i do? please help me.
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well you just have to talk to her and tell her how you feel about her and if things dont work out you teller tankyou for your time and walk away there are other fish in the sea you just need to catch the rite one id date because your
a sweet guy just tell her u like her and maybe shell feel the same way youll know the rite fish when it comes around
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well i'm a girl and i think if i was her i would want to be your girl friend cause you no how to talk to a girl.and i love the fact that you love girls for your feelings.i like that sojust tell her how you feel and every thing will be ok.
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You really have to talk with her about this. You can't just let yourself go on feeling this way because it'll only get worse.
Tell her how you feel. If she likes you, then she likes you & there's nothing to feel guilty about. Maybe you just need reassurance, and that's okay because everyone needs it every once in a while. :)
Just tell her. I'm sure she'll understand.
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you gotta be strong and ready for things to change. It doesn't mean they will but you gotta be ready for it. It could be the best decision you ever make or the worst. I had to do this before, I had to tell this guy that I thought he was my soul mate and I was scared that if I told him it would scare him away...but I said you know what, if he can't handle it, it's ok. I'm still ok with myself. If he can handle it then great. I told him and sure enough, he was feeling the same way. I think you should tell her how you feel, maybe you should write it down, sometimes that really helps. And see where it takes you. You gotta love you cause if you don't love you then no one else can cause you wont be able to allow the love in. Start telling your self positive stuff in the mirror every night. I have had people (that I wasn't personally attracted to) tell me that haha that if someone didn't think they were cute then there was something wrong with the other person and not them. haha and this is the truth. We are all the way we should be for the right people in our lives and for ourselves. Not realizing this is the reason for so much anorexia, bulimia, over done plastic surgeries and other stuff. Love your self and say hey if she likes me cool and if not her loss :) That's it, you just gotta grab your balls and do it haha :P
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Ask her, Talk to her about it. Afterall communication is the key. If she isn't ready for a relationship then you two can be friends maybe somewhere down the line she will be ready and you two could try again. Also, You need to start having some confidence in yourself because if you doubt the relationship and you doubt yourself too much you are going to find it going down the drain...
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