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I'm an idiot, I messed up.
I’m 16 and I’m upset about (Girl), who is 15.
I understand I’ve already messed up any chance I had with her, and I don’t deserve her because of that. But she doesn’t even want to talk to me. She won’t even let me tell her how I feel about her, or explain why I never asked her out.
I’m really worried my friend (Guy), who is 15, likes her. The reason I never asked her out has to do with my previous girlfriend, (Slut). Long story short, I messed up with (Slut) and she ended up with my best friend. I was miserable for two months. It took me two years to be able to like another girl again, I then I met her, (Girl). I really liked (Girl). I wanted to ask (Girl) out, and I knew she would say yes. But every time I tried to ask her out, for four months, the feeling game back. I kept thinking, what if I mess up and she ends up with my best friend? It was a stupid thing to think, I know. Finally, she got tired of waiting for me and moved on. So, after all, I did mess up, and that’ll set me back another year. But if she ends up with (Guy), one of my best friends, I don’t think I’ll be able to ask a girl out until I’m out of college. She and (Guy) have been flirting like I used to flirt with her.
What should I do?
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You need to talk to her. Loving/liking someone new is about forgetting what happened with previous people in the past and just be happy where you are now. You can tell her you're scared to mess up again, she'll understand. The sooner the better. You have to try forgetting about the past with (Slut) and ignore the feeling that it could happen. You're nervous, almost everyone is when it comes to asking people out. I know, the feeling of the past can sometimes haunt you, but you can scare that feeling right back to the past by keeping your head up high and straight up ignoring it.
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Well, first off, she's avoiding you because you told her you liked her but didn't make a move. She could possibly think that you didn't make a move because you just want to hook up but not actually date her.
You need to ask her flat out why she's been avoiding you.
But you need to let her know how you feel. I know you already did, but you need to do it again. If you don't make a move, then she's going to think you're lying about liking her as more than just a hookup.
Also, if you don't make a move, then you're giving (Guy) the opportunity to make one. If she likes you too, it won't matter how many guy friends she has, it won't matter.
Look, you can't stop looking for your soul mate (if you believe in the thing) just because one girl crapped all over you.
All girls are different. Okay, well to be truthful, some girls are the same and your relationship is not going to be perfect right off the bat with all your insecurities. Some girls cheat, and some don't.
If you want to find a girl to be with, you have to stop worrying about the cheating ones or you'll never find one who doesn't.
Hope this helps you!
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go get her tiger.. just talk to her, be sweet and explain the situation. that you really like her.. liked her a lot.. and you wern't sure if you were ready for her to be your girlfriend until you were afraid it was too late... well its not too late. i also think you should say something to your guy friend. Be like dude thats not very cool, it seems like you are trying to get with every girl i like; you are fifteen i think you should be able to find your own. Plus since you are 16 and he is 15 she will go for you becasue you are older and you can drive. at least in my state you have to be 16.
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Talk to her. Trust me, I'm a girl & if she knew all of this she would probably give you a chance. You can't let her go just because she might've moved on yet. You have to let her go when she knows everything about the situation & still decides to move on. But for now, she doesn't realize it. Explain it to her & talk to her about it. It wouldn't be a bad idea to talk to your guy friend either. You just have to relax & go with it. You're only 16. You're going to meet so many different people, especially in college. Loosen up a bit & just talk to her. That way you won't be wondering years later that if you explained to her what really happened, if you still would've had a chance. Plus, you can still be her friend.
-hope that helped!♥
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yea man just relax and breathe for a moment, if you had enough time to talk to her before then explain to her what your feelins were and tell her the long story. then at the end of it tell her that you stil like and and want to go out. good luck
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dude you need to just chill. every day is a new day. i believe in you and im only 14
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