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mixed signals
Posted Friday October 9 2009, 1:58 am
I just broke up with my boyfriend on Sunday and through all the fighting and break-up and confusion there was this boy here at college to get me through the day. Even now he'll still text me almost everyday just to see how I'm doing. Just someone to check up on me and talk to. We met at orientation so I've known him for a while. Well after the break-up I developed a crush on this guy which hasn't surprised me at all. He reminds me so much of my best guy friend from home, and I'm physically attracted to him. We've hung out everyday since the break-up. Like from 7p-12am. He hangs out with my group of girls a lot and when we're in the group its just really casual conversation between us but then when we're in his room at night (with his roomat...
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Doomed love affair. Should I go for it? How do i hide if i do?
Posted Friday October 9 2009, 12:35 am
Hi.
I have a huge problem.
I'm 19/f and come from a super strict crazy ass family. My parents are very in touch with their culture (not from here) where as I was raised here (I moved when I was 9) I can relate to them but not completely. I feel closer to the culture here...yet I am not allowed to date (No I am not Muslim but we're sort of similar... they're cooler. they believe in love. we're probably mores strict that way and marriage and relationships are a contract. I am not revealing what exactly since I am pretty sure a lot of my friend might be on here) or be romantically involved I have to be at home most of the time. Malls, movies, any other form of entertainment requiring you to be out of the house is highly d...
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How can I let this guy know that I like him? (sorry its long)
Posted Thursday October 8 2009, 7:05 pm
I have a small, yet growing crush on a guy named Rick. He just moved to my town not too long ago. He's pretty shy and doesn't really talk that much to me or anyone else. I end up starting conversations all the time but they are usually dead end questions because I'm also shy and I can't really think of what to say. I also catch myself doing embarrassing things around him all the time but he doesn't seem to mind and is friendly anyway. I'm too afraid to say anything to his face about liking him or finding him attractive because I'm not really sure if he likes me.
He looks at me and then looks away real quick all the time but he never stares at me.
He catches me staring at him all the time too, I can only look at him for...
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why am i confused
Posted Thursday October 8 2009, 3:43 pm
okay...so i started talking to this kid named tom. he is very sweet and we talk a lot. i am confused on the way i feel for tom. i just told this boy Mike that i liked him (i told him this two weeks ago) (i liked him for two years)..he never talked to me after that...so now im talking to zack a lot and i get butterflies and i feel happy and special whenever i talk to him..but i just sometimes feel different. confused. i have liked mike for so long that i havent been used to ever liking someone else. so now im just confused on my feelings because now i feel so vulnerable and im wondering.. do i really like tom?..but i know i do. i just hate the way i am feeling. i feel nervous and scared because this is going to be new for me. i havent been i...
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What should i do?? my boyfriend...
Posted Thursday October 8 2009, 3:27 pm
Today I found out that my boyfriend of 6 months had broken up with me for some other whore. I asked who this lucky lady was and he would not reply. I went home from school early and crying my eyes out and in a way looking forward to my mom there to comfort me in this difficult time. but as i walked in the door i noticed my ex. boyfriends car parked out side, in exitement i was thinking he might be here to talk to me about "us" but when i looked around the house no one was home. so i was on my way to my room sadly because me and he had, had sex in there so many times, but as i walked in i saw my boyfriend and my mom having sex no i cant sleep in there any more.
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sudden break up. long but im desperate!
Posted Thursday October 8 2009, 2:52 pm
I recently wrote on here asking for some ideas on how my boyfriend and I could celebrate our one month anniversary....
However last night things took a turn for the worst, and he broke up with me. Basically, he was really quiet all afternoon so I kept trying to get to him tell me what was wrong. "I don't know, I've just been mellow like this all day." was his answer.
A few weeks ago, he told me that he wasn't sure if the feelings he had for me were just for a friendship or relationship. He said he was starting to just see me as a friend. But the next day he said, "I'm so sorry, I don't know what I was thinking. I changed my mind." So I just went with it, and things seemed to be fine after th...
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insecurities
Posted Thursday October 8 2009, 1:16 pm
i have many insecurities ever since my past relationships, and now i'm in a 9 month relationship that i don't show my insecurities, but my boyfriend does know about it. i hate feeling paranoid and stuff like that, is there any way where i can try to think positive and stop being so insecure? thank you!
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i wanna stay friends but it doesnt help me get over him
Posted Thursday October 8 2009, 12:07 pm
i really like this guy & we where really good friends. i always thought he liked me back but it turns out he still had feelings for his ex.
the thing is that im kind of angry at him cause he always flirted with me like he took my hand or we cuddled in his bed etc. & why would he do that if he doesnt have at least slight feelings for me? and even AFTER he told me he still likes his ex he continued.
& now im not really talking to him anymore cause it hurts me. i like him sooo much and i just have to look at him & it feels like a box of butterflies in my stomach exploded haha (:
i really wanna be friends with him again but im not sure that i can without liking him so much. but i have no chance with him :/ i dont know what to do :[
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Break Up?
Posted Thursday October 8 2009, 12:03 pm
Okay so my boyfriend of a year and 7 months just broke up with me. It feels weird and I feel alone...I talked to him and the reason is for distance..."he wants me a lot closer". Is it okay to still hook up with him? We're both in love with one another and I honestly don't want to move on. I think he maybe be the one. Bad idea? I don't know this just seems weird and I'm not feeling right.
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guy ignore me?
Posted Thursday October 8 2009, 12:36 am
(We have talked the week b4..we are all kinda a group of friends)
So I like this guy that is my roommates cousin's friend..hah..And like last time he came over, I talked to everyone but him. I didn't do it on purpose, but when I like a guy and we are in a group...I tend to ignore him....I didnt say Hi, but I said bye.
That night he deleted me as his FB friend ><;;
So last night they came over again and he said Hi to everyone in the room except me. He didnt acknowledge me of even look at me. He didn't say Bye to me either when he left. Its like I didn't exist.
And everytime him and my roommate are talking, He always looks at me. They arent talking about me, so why does he look at me?...wahh
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not such a good kisser..
Posted Wednesday October 7 2009, 11:10 pm
my bf and i just started going out. his so cuute and sweet buut not really a good kisser like he opens his mouth too much and too wide and pretty much sticks his whole tounge in my mouth. what should i doooo? oohhh and i want to ask him to the christmas dance...its a turn around dance. i want it to be really cuute. any ideas?? thanks. :] 17/f
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Potential Boyfriend and God
Posted Wednesday October 7 2009, 10:44 pm
There's this kid I've been hanging out with recently and we really like each other. He's smart, funny, cute, the whole cliched package. :-p
Anyway, I'm a Christian. I believe in God and religion and spirituality have become increasingly important and comforting to me. I go to church just about every Sunday and I just really love it there.
Now, I'm not the type of person that will ever go around pushing my beliefs on someone. I'm a little sad that someone hasn't found God yet, but I'm not going to force my beliefs on them because it's not my place to tell them what to believe you know?
I found out that this potential boyfriend is an atheist. Like I said before, I don't care if he believes somethin...
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Over n done with but still crushing?!
Posted Wednesday October 7 2009, 8:54 pm
I used to like my friend but then just recently i finally got over my crush for him n i dont really hang out with him except if he talks to me. at school during lunch he buys his food in the express line n i eat in the hot lunch line so my friend jerry told my ex-crush that i love him n my crush smiled till jerry said not anymore n walked away then my crush frowned n said i dont care. After all that my crush comes in the hot lunch line wen he never does he smiled at me but i tried to ignore him n he kept making me laugh. Now i think im getting feelings for him. What do i do now i cant tell him i like him again??
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Getting boyfriend to open up
Posted Wednesday October 7 2009, 5:25 pm
Hi i'm a freshman in college and me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months. We are so good about talking about everything and being open and he would always tell me all these really nice things about how he feels about me and so on. He told me that he loved me a couple weeks ago, but he hasn't said it since then. I know its nothing to be paranoid about because we get along great and everything is going well. I just wonder why he doesn't say it any more??
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Boy younger than girl
Posted Wednesday October 7 2009, 5:06 pm
Okay, So I'm a senior in high school and he's a sophomore. I know its cradle robbing but we are soo much alike and like each other and to me he's pretty mature. But you know guys always put that show on for girls. My question is Do you think anything is wrong with him being younger than me? I do really like him and we hang out. And all my guy friends love him and want me to say yes.
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boyfriend broke up with me out of nowhere!
Posted Wednesday October 7 2009, 9:30 am
we have been dating for over a year and in the beginning he developed (or re-started actually) a horrible cocaine addiction that lead to stealing from me and voltile fights between us. i live with him and his family loves me. he quit the addiction for about 5 months and i thought we were doing great.over the time he was sober, i did however become high maintance and started to control the things he did-or at least have a strong input with things-such as getting a streetbike, joining the army, (i bluntly said no to both things because they scare me! its his life im concerned about!) and the things he bought. i always asked him how much money he had and stuff but it was because of all the stress and shit he had put me through previously. abou...
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true love, i can never leave completely, and help
Posted Tuesday October 6 2009, 9:52 pm
15/f
i have known this guy for about four years now, and we argued and fought all the time, but then this past summer, i completely fell for him! we were together all summer, and part of the year, we realized that we argued because we completely loved each other! he stole my heart, but we live apart, i know they say that distance never works and some say that distance brings people together, well we broke up because we only saw each other when i went and stayed with him for a weekend maybe one or twice a month. but we changed, and it was like there was a wall, but we still loved each other. the week next that we broke up, it was silence, but he pulled me on his lap like he used to, then this past weekend, i told him i still loved him...
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Why do guys lose interest?
Posted Tuesday October 6 2009, 5:58 pm
So, there is this guy. I really like him- he is a bit older than me and has a son who doesn't live with him. We have hung out a few times, and every time has led to something sexual (but that doesn't seem like it is all he wants from me).
He tells me that he really likes me, and is blowing up my phone when he wants to. But, other times, I will text him throughout the day only to get a couple short responses or none at all. There have been a couple of times when he asked me to hang out and then "fell asleep".
I am wondering what I have done that is making the guys I am interested in lose interest in me. He says he isn't but, something is up.
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Should i Have kissed her?
Posted Tuesday October 6 2009, 5:31 pm
Hi im 18 and im a guy who just recently asked a girl out who i was told likes me, which turns out to be evident anyways. Shes younger than me (16) but all day at school she was making alot of contact and such, and at the end of the day i gave her a long hug and she seemed very much like she was leaning toward giving me a kiss. BUT me of course being not sure if that's what she really wanted, (especially in front of like all of the middle schoolers and our grades....) i sorta slowly backed away and said see you tomorrow...
If anyone has any insight on maybe what she would be thinking right now cause i cant really go back and change that but was that a mistake???
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is he interested in me any more ?
Posted Tuesday October 6 2009, 5:01 pm
Okay well like I said in the past question that I asked . I had a hard time letting my ex boyfriend go . Well I finally am able to let my ex boyfriend go and im ready to moved forward with the guy that I been with for 10 months . But it feels like I waited to late . Because my boyfriend doesn't want to touch me like that . In school he does really touch me. But when we are walkin home he does . He doesn't say he loves me like he used to . He doesn't do anything like he used to . He is a wonderful person but I just feel he is not interested in me anymore. I tried to break up with him before but he didn't want to break up . But then again he asks like he doesn't want to be with me anymore . Im making some big changes in my life...
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