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is he interested in me any more ?


Question Posted Tuesday October 6 2009, 5:01 pm

Okay well like I said in the past question that I asked . I had a hard time letting my ex boyfriend go . Well I finally am able to let my ex boyfriend go and im ready to moved forward with the guy that I been with for 10 months . But it feels like I waited to late . Because my boyfriend doesn't want to touch me like that . In school he does really touch me. But when we are walkin home he does . He doesn't say he loves me like he used to . He doesn't do anything like he used to . He is a wonderful person but I just feel he is not interested in me anymore. I tried to break up with him before but he didn't want to break up . But then again he asks like he doesn't want to be with me anymore . Im making some big changes in my life . I just went threw some things with my parents seperating and me living with my mom and grandparents now . So im trying to be more understanding . And last year it was like I pushed him away a lot and now I want him all ova me . But he says I got what I wished for .he says he loves me every now and thin . We don't really go anywhere he doesn't really buy me anything . The last time he brought me something was when we was gonna break up a while back. Ao basically I want to know should I let him go . Or should I stay with him. And what mistakes am I making . Thanks .

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Debbie235 answered Tuesday October 6 2009, 10:55 pm:
My opinion is... If you're unhappy maybe you should let go. If it's broken sometimes it can be fixed but... If there two many pieces loss maybe they'll always be... Your biggest promblem was jumping into another relationship before you move on and with that... You cause the new guy to resent you because you were not over your ex... And that's not fair to him in any kinda way... You should have just stayed alone or casually dated until you were over him... I'm not trying to get on your case... I was there before myself... We are all human... But sometimes we have to accept faults... It may never work out between you guys because, he was the rebound guy... And now that you're over your ex it may be to late to fix it... Next time don't make the mistake by jumping into something so quick... You have alot going on in your life and you need time to work on yourself... The best of luck to you

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sobeg answered Tuesday October 6 2009, 7:05 pm:
sorry i really do not know much of your situation but what i can say is this. You are going thru alot right now...beleive it or not i think you need a lot ..you need someone to hear you out, talk to you keep you company and love you with out any physical interest. You dont need sex drugs or anything that can and will throw you way off. If your boyfriend seems to not find you interesting ask him if hes going some stuff? ask him if he loves you? let him know you feel him cold...but ask him calmy and if he gives you the cold silent treatment or gets aggressive just be strong and calmy say im sorry...walk away and then let him go. why calmly? you do not war again you are not in a situation for more load you need to have a focused mind. I hope this really helps

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