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Why do guys lose interest?
So, there is this guy. I really like him- he is a bit older than me and has a son who doesn't live with him. We have hung out a few times, and every time has led to something sexual (but that doesn't seem like it is all he wants from me).
He tells me that he really likes me, and is blowing up my phone when he wants to. But, other times, I will text him throughout the day only to get a couple short responses or none at all. There have been a couple of times when he asked me to hang out and then "fell asleep".
I am wondering what I have done that is making the guys I am interested in lose interest in me. He says he isn't but, something is up.
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it's a guy thing. unfortunately us girls have to get use to things like this. i remember when i use to like my best guy friend and he would always be so short with me when he would text me, but then when he wanted something and i wouldnt answer he would keep calling and if i was with friends, he would want me to leave to go hang out with him. they feel like they can demand us around. you can't let this guy do that to you. you can't allow him to know that you can be pushed around like that. i asked my best friend whats wrong with him while he texts, and why he never seems to want to hang out and he said, "nothings wrong:) what are you talking about!? im fine! and i'd love to hangout, but you never text me and ask so i didn't know you wanted to"
this just goes to show guys are confusing. as for the texts, guys are foolish and don't know that they're making girls feel like that. EVERY girl goes through this. they feel like the guy doesn't care when he's texting because he'll be like .. "yeah .. okay .. lol.." but it's just how they text. nothing to be worried over! the thing i did wrong was kept asking what was wrong, what i did and so on..and this pushed him away because really nothing was wrong. if he tells you he isn't losing interest in you.. he's not! i'd lay low on the sexual things for now.. it'd prove even more that he wants you and not just sex! hope this helped. if you need anything else, inbox! ♥ LU
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From what you say maybe theres someone else in the picture guys tend to act differently when there involved with someone else. And also, you have to really evaluate your siuation, you said that everytime you're togeather you have sex. I mean that can be the main reason. You have to be able to offer a guy more than just sex... Now ask yourself this question... Do you two talk for hours when you're togeather? Have you really got to know him? Do you go to movies, walks at the park... Church... Picnic etc ETC... Have you met his son? His mom, Dad, anybody, friends, co-workers... Or is it always sexual... Guys tend to loose instrest if theres just sex honey... Sex don't make you stand out at all... Any women can give a guy sex... So if you think thats what it takes to keep a guy you're headed down the wrong road.
My suggestion is, I would put a stop to the sex... And I would try to get in his head and try to get to know him better... Because there could very well be someone else in the picture or you can just be I don't wanna be harsh but... A Booty Call! The best of luck to you
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