i have many insecurities ever since my past relationships, and now i'm in a 9 month relationship that i don't show my insecurities, but my boyfriend does know about it. i hate feeling paranoid and stuff like that, is there any way where i can try to think positive and stop being so insecure? thank you!
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sobeg answered Friday October 9 2009, 12:50 pm: Without a adoubt you/ we can never control anything in life...except our attidtude. I agree with the previouse advicer be positive smile im sure you have a awesome beautifull smile, believe youare beautiful because you are!! Its a good thing that you have spoken to him about it. If you feel that he is doing and exceeding his part in the relationship that should help ease you. Hes human and so are you. You both will do fine and long as he hears you out and listens to you and gives you feedback , time and his love for you will erase the past. I really wish you the best and i hope this helps [ sobeg's advice column | Ask sobeg A Question ]
gr8fruit answered Thursday October 8 2009, 11:27 pm: Hey there,
The only way you are going to get rid of all of your insecurities, is to be honest. You won't stop thinking about the past until you let it go; talk about it with your boyfriend. I know it may be hard, but the best thing is to be honest with him. If he respects you, he will understand. You will get through the rough patches, and hopefully he can comfort you then as well. I would say, you only feel paranoid because you know you are keeping it from him. Keep thinking positive, smile lots, and gather up your strength to talk about it. When you talk about your insecurities, you will feel relieved. Also, you are likely to become even closer to your boyfriend <3 [ gr8fruit's advice column | Ask gr8fruit A Question ]
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