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Break Up?
Okay so my boyfriend of a year and 7 months just broke up with me. It feels weird and I feel alone...I talked to him and the reason is for distance..."he wants me a lot closer". Is it okay to still hook up with him? We're both in love with one another and I honestly don't want to move on. I think he maybe be the one. Bad idea? I don't know this just seems weird and I'm not feeling right.
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Hooking up is a bad idea. That gives him the illusion of a relationship without actually having to have one with you. If he truely wanted you, and wanted to be closer to you, than he would make the move. I think he's using a rediculous excuse. You aren't going to feel right, you were together for a year and a half. You have to find yourself again to feel right. If you're both in love than he would want to compromise. This doesn't sound like the case. Nobody wants to move on, but we do. We push forward, and find ourselves a litle bit every day. Best of luck to you.
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sorry to hear your realationship ended but by hooking up do you mean sex? or hanging out? or to get together again? either way its really more of how you will feel after hooking up. Distance can be roguh on a relationship but if you really truly love someone i dont think should be a reason to let go. I think he might have another reason he does not want to tell you. I hope this helps
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Hooking up with him is "okay", I guess. I mean, it's not against the law, but is it a good idea? Nope. Obviously there is some reason it ended, and all hooking up with him is going to do is prevent you from moving on. I know you don't want to, and it's not going to be easy, but it's something you're going to have to do. Try not to think about it maybe happening again one day, cause you're just gonna hold on to false hopes and never get over him.
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