How can I let this guy know that I like him? (sorry its long)
Question Posted Thursday October 8 2009, 7:05 pm
I have a small, yet growing crush on a guy named Rick. He just moved to my town not too long ago. He's pretty shy and doesn't really talk that much to me or anyone else. I end up starting conversations all the time but they are usually dead end questions because I'm also shy and I can't really think of what to say. I also catch myself doing embarrassing things around him all the time but he doesn't seem to mind and is friendly anyway. I'm too afraid to say anything to his face about liking him or finding him attractive because I'm not really sure if he likes me.
He looks at me and then looks away real quick all the time but he never stares at me.
He catches me staring at him all the time too, I can only look at him for 30 seconds without him noticing if he isn't facing the complete opposite direction.
I smile at him almost every time he catches me staring at him, he smiles back but its a little smile.
He sent my best friend a friends request on a social networking site and asked her where he knew her from (he sees me with her every day)
he smiles every time i say something funny, even if he isn't looking at me.
I run into him everywhere.
My friends notice him looking at me too.
Once, he was walking so close behind me that he stepped on me.( i realize that this probably means nothing)
When I walk behind him, he looks at me out of the corner of his eye.
I don't want to scare him off, but I don't want to wait too long and let him go. What should I do?
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? sobeg answered Friday October 9 2009, 1:47 pm: sometimes our energy can be picked up by others. I cant say he likes you or that he doesnt like you but i do know that you find him interesting, aks your self what are the things that you find about him that catches your attention. Yes his look are i guess important but nowadays thats alot of what we humans do we tend not to look into the person in what he really is and is not. I give my advice in writing things/qualities you do not want in a guy and making a list. examples: I do not want a tall guy or a hairy guy or a player or a abusive person, write down all of the things you do not want in a guy then read the list often and remind yourself of the qualities that you do not want in a guy.It could be you are ment to be with each other or maybe he might know the person who youll end up having a relationship. life is full of surprises. but before you tell him you like him make sure this is what you feel inside not what you see and that he hints or expreses that he feels the same for you so that you both are on the same page.
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lolalufonda222 answered Thursday October 8 2009, 11:59 pm: well from your story it seems like he likes you.
but if he is so shy he probably doesnt want to be the first to say how he feels.
so maybe you shoulsd tell him?
but if your not brave enough for that then just dont actually say anything but make it very obovius.
put yourself in a position where its just the 2 of you and if he wanted to he could easily ask you out or kiss you or something.
good luck!
lemme know how it goes k? [ lolalufonda222's advice column | Ask lolalufonda222 A Question ]
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