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Boy younger than girl
Okay, So I'm a senior in high school and he's a sophomore. I know its cradle robbing but we are soo much alike and like each other and to me he's pretty mature. But you know guys always put that show on for girls. My question is Do you think anything is wrong with him being younger than me? I do really like him and we hang out. And all my guy friends love him and want me to say yes.
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definately go for it! i went through the same thing also. me and this guy were two years apart and at first i was like ... uhhh are people going to be talking about us? it's always weird at first but then things get better, trust me:) i just didn't care! if he makes you happy, go for it. i talked to my mom about it because i was feeling so insecure and she told me some wise words:
"don't let anyone ruin your happiness, if he puts a smile on your face and butterflies in your stomach, thats all that matter. it's your life- nobody else's :)"
that made me feel alot better. after awhile people won't even notice! they'll just be like .. oh you guys are so cute together! and yeaaaah some people may be like how old is he? but you just have to be confident and say he's a sophomore. honestly, people won't care. now if gilrs start talking about you two - it's just because there jealous ;) good luck! if you need anything else, leave it in the inbox. i know what you're going through ♥ LU
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Don't focus on what other people say, focus on what really matters ... what you think. If you spend your life caring about other people's oppinion of you, you'll never be happy. Do what YOU want and yeah, listen to your friends thoughts, take them into consideration, but in the end, it's your decision and your life, not theirs. You need to follow your heart.
But in my opinion, age is just a number [unless you're like 12 and the guy is 20 .. ew] hahaa. but in your case it's totally fine. If you realy like him and you are both on the same page, then I say go for it :] more power to yuh !
good luck ! have fun and go with the flow :] if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me. xxo.
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Nothing is wrong with that. If you guys like each other then dont listen to any one else that disagree with you guys. They are just HATER! lol but age aint nothing but a number. So do what you think is right.
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Heck no its not cradle robbing. The only time the term cradle robbing is used and should be used it when someone they are dating is old enough to be there child/mother/father. Do what you want nothing is wrong with age difference even in the term of cradle robbing as long as you both can handle the long term situations that will come with it and the comments from other folks that will be made. However, as long as you both feel you are on the same level mentally and you want to be together then do it. Dont let your or his friends encourage you into doing something you dont wanna do. You do it for yourself because you want too!!
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