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18/f. I just had sex for the first time with my boyfriend of 4 months. And he knows this, but when I was younger, I was raped. Several times. By my older brother. and that's caused havoc with my love life, like you wouldn't even know. I just shut down for no apparent reason, I just get really scared and I don't know how to deal with it and it's so frustrating. and It hasn't been that huge of a problem, I'm fine with everything, we can have sex and I'm fine, but when we hit third base, I just can't do it. I can't give him head, I go into a nervous break down and I can't bring myself to do it. and yesterday he tried eatting me out, and I was okay at first, but just looking down and seeing him sent me into this horrible flashback and I can't let him do it. It just freaks me out too bad. I don't think this is normal, but does anybody else have anything like this? How do I make it go away? I want to be intimate with my boyfriend, and this is severally barring it. Thanks so much...
Sincerally, 3rd base horror (link)
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well i think you should tell someone like ur parents or go 2 a theraphis or something you have to talk about it so it can all go away~hope you like my adviceā„
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whats the newest lil wayne song (link)
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i think it is im at war...? but idk yet
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I am 16 female, my bf is 18. So here's the thing, I'm very shy! Not that confident in my "self look," I'm skinny skinny but I'm also not a huge whale, no offense to anyone. I'm a 34C cup, I get embarrassed when he touches me sexually, and very shy too. But I do like it, it's just when he tells me to tell him what I want or like, it makes me get all shy and blah!!! I hate it, on the phone when we talk, he turns me on and says things he'd be doing to me, or wants to do, then when I'm supposed to I get shy or embarrassed and I HAVE NO CLUE WHAT TO SAY!!!! It really sucks, I've always been more of a pleaser then get pleased, and I like to act not talk about acting. Has anyone lese had this problem? Is it normal? Am I hopeless, will I ever get over this? Him and I have been together for 9 months now, we started fooling around on our 5 month together. What should I do?! :( (link)
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your probaly shy around your bf because he is older more macure hes a different age then you... so does he mind that your shy or does he even know?
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what is so bad about pot? (link)
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its a drug!! drugs are bad for you, you can die at a younger age. you can get yellow teeth, bad breath, nd you will deff. not get a gf/ bf wit breath like that!
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The guy i like has a girlfriend which i just found out on friday when me and my friends saw him at the mall. But when he walked by me he didnt even say hi like he always does and his girlfriend was staring at me like alot. So why do you think he acts so shady around me?
P.S. I already told him I liked him. (link)
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well 1st of all HELLO LISA!! nd i think yu should just beat her ASS 4get sam she is just a tall ass motha fucka that is just mad cause your betta lookin nd she is also mad cause izzy deff. rashed on her in front of BOB soo 4get bout her
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there is this guy, I'm fifteen, and he is about the same age, he wants to lose our virginity together, and i think I'm going to. But i refuse to without a condom, and i don't believe in sex after marriage, and i do love him, even if it wasn't for forever, and i just want to know if there is any other precautions, other than STDs and condoms and what not, and i have no idea how to get a condom and i don't want to use plastic wrap because that's not safe really.. this is kind of embarrassing so please don't judge me..thanks for the help !! (link)
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well if he doesnt want to use a condom then get pregnancy pills nd just tell him you will have sex if he uses a condom nd if yu think he is in love wit you nd not just usin yu then i think yu should have s.e.x but ONLY IF YU THINK IT IS RIght
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I recently seen a tv show law n order which i love oliva the detective went under cover to a prison and was almost raped.
I was raped three times and just watching that episode brought back my memories does it ever get easier? I just feel helpless and alone since i watched it (link)
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when you got raped did you know who did it?? because if you do go to the cops! and even if you dont know who it is go to the cops and give them a description about the guy so the cops can take him to jail!! And he will stop wat he is doin!
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18/m
If my girlfriend and I are kissing and she is in my lap straddling me with a leg on either side and my pants are undone and she is wearing a dress and has it kind of pulled up so her feminine parts are "grinding" so to speak (like a skateboard on a rail) on my masculine parts but we are both still wearing our underwears (her=panties, me=boxers)... is there a possibility of pregnancy? Yes, I would be leaking semens cause thats what Mr. Johnson likes to do when things start to get hot n' heavy but not quite hot n' heavy enough to make him want to give it all he's got... you know what I mean ;).
Seriously though I need to know cause my love asked me to ask you fellows... or somebody she didn't specify who but seeing as all these little 14-year-old girls are having similar problems (although my issue involves common sense and lacks alcohol) I thought this would be the place to go.
WHAT SAY YOU?!?!?!?!
thanks! =]
oh and I don't do condoms and she don't do birth control... and definitely not plan-B. (link)
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no because yu didnt put ur thingy in her thingy so there is no pregnancy nd if yu did tell her to go 2 the doctor nd ask or get a pregnancy test nd if she is pregnant get use 2 some1 sayin HI DADDY!
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Okay, So I'm a senior in high school and he's a sophomore. I know its cradle robbing but we are soo much alike and like each other and to me he's pretty mature. But you know guys always put that show on for girls. My question is Do you think anything is wrong with him being younger than me? I do really like him and we hang out. And all my guy friends love him and want me to say yes. (link)
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Nothing is wrong with that. If you guys like each other then dont listen to any one else that disagree with you guys. They are just HATER! lol but age aint nothing but a number. So do what you think is right.
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What should I be??
I don't want to buy things unless they can be worn againg on a regular basis.
I was thinking something with tigts.
Any ideas, that use pretty much what everygirl has in thier closet!
15/f (link)
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Well you can be a tiger just were black and orange, or you can be pj girl its the easist costume there is.
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Hi i'm a freshman in college and me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months. We are so good about talking about everything and being open and he would always tell me all these really nice things about how he feels about me and so on. He told me that he loved me a couple weeks ago, but he hasn't said it since then. I know its nothing to be paranoid about because we get along great and everything is going well. I just wonder why he doesn't say it any more?? (link)
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Did you say I love you back? Because if you didnt he might think that you dont love him.
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