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sooo how should i go about this?
there is this guy, I'm fifteen, and he is about the same age, he wants to lose our virginity together, and i think I'm going to. But i refuse to without a condom, and i don't believe in sex after marriage, and i do love him, even if it wasn't for forever, and i just want to know if there is any other precautions, other than STDs and condoms and what not, and i have no idea how to get a condom and i don't want to use plastic wrap because that's not safe really.. this is kind of embarrassing so please don't judge me..thanks for the help !!
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well if he doesnt want to use a condom then get pregnancy pills nd just tell him you will have sex if he uses a condom nd if yu think he is in love wit you nd not just usin yu then i think yu should have s.e.x but ONLY IF YU THINK IT IS RIght
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Theres nothing to be embarrassed about sex is a natural part of a human being. I would like to say that 1. be very careful 2. do not expect the stars and the moon (orgasm) 3.make sure he is going to value you weather you do or do not have sex with him 4.you might not care right now if it last but will it bother you if he doesnt care either? i mean what if he doesnt care and tells his buddies? and they tell their guy/ girl buddies and so on...see where im going? be very carefull and keep researching its the best thing you can do before taking your step in what will be a big change in your body and future. If you do decide to have sex think about it first and accept the consequences and resposibilities that come with that...your body will want to keep exploring the sexual world and theres nothing wrong with that just dont get lost in it and make it the 1st thing i your life there are many goals that you stilll need to full fill. Condoms at least in this state are givien for free at schools and many clinics. If you do have sex please make sure he will respect you no matter how excited you are and he is if you say it hurt and it will/can he needs to be a person you will trust he will stop and get off of you and comfort you...i mean do you want him to just shove it in or to be gentle and take your time and not hurt your relationship? You need to not let him insert his penis inside your vagina with out a condom preferable a latex if your not allergic to latex of course. use one with a spermicide (kills sperm) DO not use plastic wrap..it can lead to pregancy and stds and cuts ..ouch!!! even if you use a condom expect some pain every one reacts diffrently but just take your time theres a whole world to explore and love can be had with out sex..believe it or not. I hope this helps
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Condoms can be bought almost anywhere. Walmart, Kmart, drug stores even some grocery stores these days. Buy latex condoms. They are most common so that shouldn't be a problem. Lambskin condoms do nothing to prevent HIV.
It is very important that you use a condom. I understand that you know this already...don't let yourself be talked out of using one. Do not allow him to put his penis in your vagina even 'for a minute, just to see what it feels like'. If you think there is even a remote chance he won't bring one, bring one yourself.
Do not, under any circumstances try to use plastic wrap as a substitute for a condom. Plastic wrap can be used for oral sex to cover
female genitals, but it is never to be used as a condom substitute for regular sex. NEVER. It is not safe at all.
Buy lubricated condoms. You also should use some lubricant if it is your first time. Use a WATER BASED lubricant. Using lotion, baby oil or anything else may destroy the condom. You don't want that. They sell these lubricants in most places right there beside the condoms. Generic ones will work fine. I understand it is an added expense, but it will help you have a better experience & prevent torn condoms if he has trouble the first time.
On my message board I have info on how to put a condom on AND how to take a condom off. There is also other info there. I won't repeat it here as it is very long.
Please go there to check it out. It can be found under the subject condom info. All the info is from reliable websites. All links to those websites are listed. I did this a while back to help teens who do desperately need the information, but are afraid the websites will show up in their computer history announcing where they have been looking.
I hope you find some helpful information here. :)
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