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Possible pregnancy (no, I'm not a 14 year old slut)
18/m
If my girlfriend and I are kissing and she is in my lap straddling me with a leg on either side and my pants are undone and she is wearing a dress and has it kind of pulled up so her feminine parts are "grinding" so to speak (like a skateboard on a rail) on my masculine parts but we are both still wearing our underwears (her=panties, me=boxers)... is there a possibility of pregnancy? Yes, I would be leaking semens cause thats what Mr. Johnson likes to do when things start to get hot n' heavy but not quite hot n' heavy enough to make him want to give it all he's got... you know what I mean ;).
Seriously though I need to know cause my love asked me to ask you fellows... or somebody she didn't specify who but seeing as all these little 14-year-old girls are having similar problems (although my issue involves common sense and lacks alcohol) I thought this would be the place to go.
WHAT SAY YOU?!?!?!?!
thanks! =]
oh and I don't do condoms and she don't do birth control... and definitely not plan-B.
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Yes, pregnancy is very possible actually.
Pre-ejaculate still contains some sperm, even though it's a lot less than a complete ejaculation. A full ejaculation contains as many as 100 million sperm at a time, and sperm within pre-ejaculate can be as many as a few million.
If semen got to the moistened area of her vagina then she could have been impregnated, very easily at that.
Sperm can "swim" through fabric even as long as it's moist. It doesn't even have to be "wet" for them to be able to travel through it. A little moisture is all they need to survive the journey. The moisture can come from your pre-ejaculate itself, your girlfriend's own moisture from her vagina, or even sweat that you two may release during the activity.
It only takes one sperm to fertilize one egg and create one baby. A few million sperm within one pre-ejaculate is a lot more than one. If conditions are right then the sperm that do travel into the vagina can survive anywhere between 5 to 7 days, and in absolutely perfect conditions they have been found still alive at 2 weeks!
If you are going to continue to engage in risky sexual activities like this and do not plan to become pregnant then please take the proper precautionary measures and use a condom. Condoms help to prevent pregnancies to about 88% with typical usage. If your partner is not willing to take oral contraceptives or any form of hormonal birth control then you are left with either condoms or risking pregnancy. You need to make a decision, together, on which is the best option. Creating another life simply because you wanted to have a little unprotected fun is not very bright and can cause a lot of problems in your future. Get your priorities straight before continuing these activities.
If your girlfriend's next period misses then it may be possible she is pregnant. She can take a home pregnancy test then (after the missed period) or go to a clinic for a pregnancy test (more accurate; requires blood sample).
Purchase a few home pregnancy tests and have your girlfriend test herself occassionally if her period does not come next month. Some home pregnancy tests are better than others. According to a couple of studies done, First Response and Early Result Pregnancy Test are the two best kinds to purchase because they are slightly more sensitive than the others. You may want to pick up a couple of those for home usage in the future. Just because she isn't pregnant this time doesn't mean your little guys won't succeed next time, especially if you're not going to begin using a form of birth control.
If you have any more questions please feel free to ask me! :)
P.S. If I were you, I would stop talking bad about 14 year olds that are going through these problems. You're an 18 year old going through problems that many 14 year olds are going through now and you don't have any more common knowledge than they do on this subject, obviously. It isn't nice to belittle people to make yourself feel better. Advicenators are here to help everyone of all ages in all questions that are asked.
Wisdom means researching all POSSIBLE outcomes and all information BEFORE you engage in an activity. You are equal to the 14 year olds in this sense, aren't you?
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"no because yu didnt put ur thingy in her thingy so there is no pregnancy"
Man, you came to the right place obviously.
Anyway. You were both wearing underwear so there's like a 1% chance of that happening.
If your girlfriend's gonna stress herself out over it despite what you/we say, just tell her to go get a pregnancy test.
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no because yu didnt put ur thingy in her thingy so there is no pregnancy nd if yu did tell her to go 2 the doctor nd ask or get a pregnancy test nd if she is pregnant get use 2 some1 sayin HI DADDY!
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I think you guys might think about doing things a bit more diffrent if youre worried about pregnancy. Yes she can get pregnant. it does not take much sperm to fertilize an egg. and semen does contain sperm. If you guys are doing this around period time it can happen..many people think sperm dies upon exposure to air...false!! many think sperm dies right away...Flase!! it can live inside a vaginal up to 1-3 days and in some cases up to 5days!! whoa!! you can have sex right after your period and not get prenant...False you still can get pregnant your uterus is open/diallated and sperm can easily get pass it and fertilize an egg. theres alot of myths out there so be careful. another one is that if you have sex in water and he climaxes/cum inside you you wont get pregnant...false you still can. or using saliva as a lube will kill sperm inside her...false once sperm enters a vaginal its mission is to fertilize thats their only mission.
I hope this info helps
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hey um i feel your gf worries..
i had these thoughts in my head a few weeks ago too
(and no im nto a 14 year old slut either =) )
and tbh i always get these worries im begining to think its normal =S
but anyways my man always says to me its very very veryy unlikly!
if you got you pants on and she got hers on thenn thers pretty much no chance =)
sorry i couldnt write a long essay about it - as im actually meant to be doing work. i hope you girlfriends thought rest soon. and to be honest once she starts a period this month... im sure that put your minds at rest =)
i hope i helped you =) have fun ;)
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