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I recently seen a tv show law n order which i love oliva the detective went under cover to a prison and was almost raped.
I was raped three times and just watching that episode brought back my memories does it ever get easier? I just feel helpless and alone since i watched it
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when you got raped did you know who did it?? because if you do go to the cops! and even if you dont know who it is go to the cops and give them a description about the guy so the cops can take him to jail!! And he will stop wat he is doin!
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You've been raped 3 times & have never received any type of help for it? How have you been living this way? Did you get checked for pregnancy, STDs, etc? You really need to get this stuff documented because if you ever wanted to sue, it'd be extremely difficult to win with no evidence.
But that's besides the point right now. You need to seek therapy. Things don't get easier until you get the help that you need. The sooner you see a professional therapist, the sooner you can come to terms with what has happened and move on with your life in a positive way. Leaving this alone and not doing anything about it will only make it worse. It will deeply affect your relationships with people, men, and it could completely ruin your sexual experiences in the future. Make sure you get yourself some therapy.
And if you happen to ever be raped again (let's hope not), make sure you get yourself checked at a doctor and that you contact 911! Rape is a serious matter that shouldn't be left alone.
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PTSD is a bitch. can't say I've been in your shoes, but I know the feeling. Therapy helps smooth things out a bit, but unless you're willing to move on, its not going to help. its been almost two years and no therapy and I'm still looney from all of that shit downrange. there's people who can help you get through this, but it requires effort on your part.
-Gunner
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babe it never gets easier until you let it go.right now its controlling you.this image is pulling you back from living your life and having a chance at having a great life.when you watched it it must of triggered memories which your mmind has been trying to block out now that your reminded its hard to get your mind back into the routine of blocking out that image in your head.does that make sense?try talking about it to someone.im a great listner and have come accross issues like this.i can be here for you if you need it.
im sure you understand that you cant turn back the clock to go back in time,you cant bring back what you lost but what you can do is live your life to the fullest protecting that girl inside you that was hurt and traumatised.you are your own protector and now need to live for the future not the past.its easier said than done but you need to believe that now that its happened your going to work your way so that it doesnt happen to you or anyone else.
im really sorry and if you ever want to talk email me
sia.d.sus@hotmail.com
im here for you :)
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