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Getting boyfriend to open up
Hi i'm a freshman in college and me and my boyfriend have been going out for about two months. We are so good about talking about everything and being open and he would always tell me all these really nice things about how he feels about me and so on. He told me that he loved me a couple weeks ago, but he hasn't said it since then. I know its nothing to be paranoid about because we get along great and everything is going well. I just wonder why he doesn't say it any more??
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maybe he doesn't like repeating himself. or maybe he realized he said it too early. leave him be. forcing somebody to say "I love you" is fucked up, and don't try to sugar coat it, because thats exactly what you're doing. if he does, he'll say it.
-Gunner
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There could be numerous reasons why he doesn't say it anymore .. or hasn't said it in a while. I mean, you need to understand that guys really don't like to be vulnerable. They get really bruised easily if they are rejected and saying i love you is a HUGE deal, for both people in the relationship. Alot of people think that boys don't take it as seriously as girls do, but in reality, that's not the case.
He might not say it again if you didn't say it back. or he might not say it depending on the way you reacted or how you replied. He may even be scared he said it too early and now doesn't know what to do about it.
There are so many possibilities, if i made a list for you, it would be endless. hahaa. you just really need to talk to him about it. communication is key. He won't mention it first because he is most likely confused and doesn't want to mess anything up. Some boys have a hard time showing their emotions, and even if you don't notice it, they can be just as insecure as the next person about being in love. It's a big step, one that you have to take together, so you need to talk to him or else you'll both be confused and wondering what's going on. don't leave things left unsaid, it'll just come back to torment you, trust me. haha :]
good luck ! have fun, hope i helped, and if you need anything else, feel free to inbox me ! xxo :]
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Did you say I love you back? Because if you didnt he might think that you dont love him.
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