Member Since: October 7, 2009
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Okay, So I'm a senior in high school and he's a sophomore. I know its cradle robbing but we are soo much alike and like each other and to me he's pretty mature. But you know guys always put that show on for girls. My question is Do you think anything is wrong with him being younger than me? I do really like him and we hang out. And all my guy friends love him and want me to say yes. (link)
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Heck no its not cradle robbing. The only time the term cradle robbing is used and should be used it when someone they are dating is old enough to be there child/mother/father. Do what you want nothing is wrong with age difference even in the term of cradle robbing as long as you both can handle the long term situations that will come with it and the comments from other folks that will be made. However, as long as you both feel you are on the same level mentally and you want to be together then do it. Dont let your or his friends encourage you into doing something you dont wanna do. You do it for yourself because you want too!!
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I am 18/f and i'm not like super thin...but i would deffinatly be considered skinny. However, i have a ton of belly fat. My stomach is not flat AT ALL and it almost looks like i am pregnant. How can I eliminate that fat quickly? Are there certain foods I should avoid or foods that are helpful to eat?
Thanks so much! (link)
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Sit ups, (man) push ups, and leg lifts will get rid of it. I always like to do push ups cause it helps build your arms and also when you do several of them your stomach is sore. And if it is sore the next 2 days then you know you did a good workout. If you are not sore the next day or only one day then you didn't workout hard enough. Avoiding foods will not help your situation. Any food rather its fast food, home cooked meals will do the same no matter what. I have even seen vegatians have this problem if that tells you anything.
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we have been dating for over a year and in the beginning he developed (or re-started actually) a horrible cocaine addiction that lead to stealing from me and voltile fights between us. i live with him and his family loves me. he quit the addiction for about 5 months and i thought we were doing great.over the time he was sober, i did however become high maintance and started to control the things he did-or at least have a strong input with things-such as getting a streetbike, joining the army, (i bluntly said no to both things because they scare me! its his life im concerned about!) and the things he bought. i always asked him how much money he had and stuff but it was because of all the stress and shit he had put me through previously. about 2 weeks ago he relasped and i freaked out. i probably shouldnt have as bad as i did but i put my foot down hard NO MORE COKE. his best friend luis is one the happiest nicest people i have ever met in my life. i love him dearly but he does coke sometimes-he isnt addictied but once in a while for parties and what not. he can handle his shit and my boyfriend couldnt.
my bf said he wouldnt do it again after his relaspe but luis suggested a lil "fun night" just them doing some coke. my bf agreed and asked me for permission. i was very upset and they tried to explain to me he wouldnt do it all the time and if he did it this time he wouldnt do so again for a long while. this was last week.
yesterday out of nowhere he politely broke up with me--minutes after suggesting we go get the kitten we had wanted to buy for ourselves. he explained how i was controlling and became a bitch and he coulnt handle it anymore. i understood but was so heartbroken and crying and he was so cold! like didnt care at all!
i cried and said i wont belike that anymore. i noticed i had become like that and for him to give me a chance. afterall i had given him so many.
he is my best friend and i love him and we have been through EVERYTHING and made it through EVERYTHING. he said he will give me a chance and he took me to dinner afterwords.
when we got home from dinner--he kept saying i looked tired an dhosuld go to bed. the he said luis was coming over. i had suspicions. sure enough the dealer came by and they were doing coke in the living room.
i stayed up with them very late. just chattying and what not. my nerves would not let me rest. he explained to me that he was osrry for not telling me the truth but that hes not doing it for a long while--months. he said he broke up with me to make me relaise what i was doing and i said "what if i had said ok?" and he said "then we would have gone through with it," he wants to get a kitten today.
he has done this before surprisingly and did coke the night we broke up months ago. it seemed all too familiar but this time freaked me out.
i want to be with him. even if he joins the army. i think we will make it
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Anyone, who believe they are the most important person in their lives and wont consider your thoughts, your beliefs, nor how you feel about a situation then that very person doesnt truely care about what you even think!! So question is why are you even with that person? Life goes on, thats the wonderful thing about life. You will always date again, you will always find someone else to go thru events. Just because you done this and you done that with this person or you two said this.. What people say and do one day is what they mean THAT DAY! It will and maynot be the same feeling next week. People fall in and out of love all the time. Its hard for people to stay in love, falling out of love is easy! And if you are already controlling his moves then honestly you aren't happy and you are not meant to be. Don't waste anymore time with someone you want to change, cause the question is.. Would you change yourself and your thoughts just to make someone happy? Change the way you dress, your make up, your hair, the biggest change someone can address you with is..to leave your family for them. If they ask you any of them then RUN they may like a part of you, but they don't like all of you.
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okk so i took the depo shot in jan was soppoosed to go back in march and take the next one i didnt go. ever since march ive been trying and trying to get pregnant.. I havent had my period since january and then for some reason i got it in august for three days.. does that even count as my period? Anyway me and my boyfriend split up for a little bit so didnt try since before august until yesterday we tried he did it in me three times. Can i get pregnant? I really want to i dont know if it will work because of this stupid shot???/ HElp (link)
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I took the Depo Shot for 5 years. I know a lot about this shot. However, to answer your question. The Depo hormones stays in your body well after you forget or no longer continue the shot. It can take several months to work itself out of your body. Until it does your chances of you getting pregnant is less then likely to happen. Sure, many people have accidents of pregnancys but this birth control method doesn't play games its a for real thing to do if you are sure about not wanting children. The period in August was a real peroid; however if you want children keep practicing. It can take you awhile.
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