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mixed signals
I just broke up with my boyfriend on Sunday and through all the fighting and break-up and confusion there was this boy here at college to get me through the day. Even now he'll still text me almost everyday just to see how I'm doing. Just someone to check up on me and talk to. We met at orientation so I've known him for a while. Well after the break-up I developed a crush on this guy which hasn't surprised me at all. He reminds me so much of my best guy friend from home, and I'm physically attracted to him. We've hung out everyday since the break-up. Like from 7p-12am. He hangs out with my group of girls a lot and when we're in the group its just really casual conversation between us but then when we're in his room at night (with his roomate and everyone else who walks in and out of there) he's really sweet and flirty but he never really gets physical. Well sometimes he'll lean on me and other times he keeps his distance. Tonight we wrestled on his bed, obviously the most physical contact we've had so far. Yet I've only hugged him once.
I can't tell if he likes me or not. And if he does if he's waiting to make a move until he feels its long enough after the break up to do so. I'm not just going to kiss him unless I know he likes me. Because if he doesn't it would be incredibly awkward.
help!
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To me it sounds like he does like you but he's just keeping his distance and not pushing the issue since you've just been through a recent breakup. The best thing for you to do is just talk to him, let him know how you feel, and then go from there. Good luck!
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I think he is just waiting for you to be comfortable because you did just have a break-up. I would just take it easy and make sure you don't get involved to quick. Or if you really want the answer talk to him and just be honest with him. Thats if you feel comfortable.
Good luck!
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You're doing the right thing, He's the sweetest guy going but things would go really awkward if he doesn't like you that way.
I lost one of my best guy friends this way except he's the one who made the first move. Things got bad, it was hard to talk without feeling weird or thinking about that moment and we hardly talk anymore unless we really have to because we're the 2 heads of our group.
Don't lose him that way, make sure x5 that he likes you first. Wait.
And if he doesn't, Better friend than nothing right?
Besides that, what a sweet considerate guy! You guys would be awesome together!
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