Hey. I'm Seshlover.
I'm a completely dreamy/doesn't-know-what's-going-on girl who lives in her own head.
My life is way too busy, but I think I like it that way.
Nothing ever remains constant so I don't really know what to type here. I guess I will just tell you what I thought to seconds ago, lol: The only thing that has remained constant thru my life until today is that I am straight (but definitely NOT homophobic, I LOVE ANYTHING YAOI!!)..... And so utterly straight that if I were a guy, I would be gay!
I fell in love with this guy when I was 13 and am still in love, now this may have been 2 months ago or 7 years ago, or actually anywhere in the between, lol~ I don't know if I will ever get over him.
I write Romance stories and I am a part time Autuor under pseudonym
I am here to help anyone and everyone so please do not hesitate to ask me anything!
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so theres this girl who i cant stand, because her and her ONLY two other friends of the school started stuff with my other friend and itbrought me and m boyfriend and one of my other friends into it. the three girls we hate go to my school and are hated by just about every person there and they decided to say they wanted to fight us but backed down when we agreed to do it and now they keep running and running their mouths and making up stuff what is a way to get everyone against them even worse or hurt them but not physically? (link)
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You already stated that these girls have practicly no friends, and are hated by everyone, So I don't think there is a way to do that, unless physically, which is never the answer.
If the stuff they are saying isn't true, it shouldn't much matter to you anyhow,Rumors are horrible and if they rest are you're real friends thn they shouldn't believe it.
And since you said they were hated anyhow, why would anyone believe what they say?
Basically, I know I shouldn't say this, but how about giving them a taste of their own medicine and spread rumors about them.....
Get people on your side and they'll back down when they see that you're not alone, Popular gossip spreading people.
Good Luck.
I hope you get out of this okay, and remember Violence is never the answer.
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heyy i'm in high school , looking at colleges and trying to figure out what i want to do with the rest of my lifeeee. I have a few thought of what i would like to do and one of them is becoming a vet.
I've always loved animals, and science but i'm not really sure what going to veterinary school entails. I was wondering if anyone new if there are certain high school science classes that are required, what kind of college classes you would need tot take before getting into vet school and things like that.
Please don't answer with well i think blah blahh but i'm not sure, because i really want to get the facts. Thanks sooooo much!!!! (link)
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Well, I think.... (lol)
People aspiring to be vets need to be directly involved in Math and Biology during high school and specialize in University.
It's also a lot harder to get into vet school rather than medical college, and experience in dealing with animals and community service in say, an animal shelter would look good on the applications.
4 years of college are required followed by 4 years of veterinary medicine.
Jobs and the practice depends on your specialization, your choosing of a particular animal to treat or perhaps a general vet.
Courses required are usually described in detail in the college application necessities that you are applying to. Some require extra classes and courses that have to be taken prior to applying. Others depend solely on academically involved principles.
On the whole being a vet takes a lot of studying.
Research the whole field carefully before deciding what you would like to specialize in.
Good Luck.... (Blah bLAH, But I'm not really sure...^_^)(Sorry, my sad and bad sense of humor).
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Female/17. OK. i have this older guy friend n i had a crush on him for awhile n he was crushin on me back. It just went back n forth. Now its back to us crushing on each other. When I finally kissed him, it was good. But a couple days later my best friend asked me if i had sex with him? I told her no, and she told me that he said that n was telling people we did!I was shocked. Cuz I didnt think he would actually do that. A few days later I confronted him about it, and he told me that my best friend was the one saying it!? So then I kinda believed it cuz she can be a b**ch. She has been one to me plenty of times. Then just recently I was talking to another friend n he told me that my older guy friend was the one that was saying it! I dont know what to do!? I feel like I just wanna be done with him. I dont know who to believe. Advice would be nice. (link)
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Think about which one you believe more in this situation, and confront that person and demand the truth, If you're not entirely sure then Confront him and her at the same time. That should do it.
And if he is the one that is spreading the rumors, that guy is the lowest kind of guy.
I wish you the best of luck
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Just tryin to get a teachers take/perspective on the elimination of recess.. good/bad healthy/unhealthy.. etc (link)
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Very Bad and Very unhealthy. Students need time to recharge between lessons and for their brains to start fresh again. Witout recess students would be falling asleep by third lesson, And would be very bored...not exactly beneficial to education.
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In your opinion when is the best time to have sex / make love? I guess most people do it at night like I do but i want to do it in the daytime and maybe not in the bedroom but i am afraid my husband will think I am some kind of sex freak.
Any advice? please at least state what time you think is best. (link)
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Experimenting with sex is beautiful and fun. You'll be able to find out how to pleasure your partener more and discover how he needs to be touched. It's nothing to be ashamed of and couples should discuss their sex life, it's healthy.
Just talk to him, I'm sure he'll be as excited as you to spend a sunday morning making love in all the rooms of the house.
If you can't talk to him(if you're too shy) then write it down in a letter and be expressive, he'll understand.
I wish you the best of luck.
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Hi, is there any teachers that are currently on this site? If so, I would like to know so I can message you and kind of interview you on a school project. THNKS! (link)
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I may not be a teacher exactly, but I have way too much knowledge floating around.
If you like, you could ask me and we'll figure out if I'm any good on the subject.
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im 17
and i haven't had sex
i'm wondering how i will know whether i'm ready for it or not.. (link)
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You could be fourteen, sixteen, hell you could be twelve.
You just have to be with the right person in the right place.
Don't rush yourself into anything that you're not ready for.
Just becuase you're seventeen doesn't mean you have to be expirenced or whatever.... The right person will show up.
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ok im a 17 female and hes going to be 18 male. well he ses he is a virgin and promises and swears. i am a virgin. weve been together for almost 11 months. and oh my gosh i want him so bad...physically. we havent done anything sexual except like feeling eachother but over clothes like he will squeeze or touch my boobs my butt or my front area. ive touched everything on him except his front area. cause he gets tickelish when i put my hands down there. and hes scared that ill give him a boner or something cause were never like completely alone. which sucks! cause i really want to have sex already i think im ready to give myself to him! in everyway. im super comfortable with him. but like i just said were never like completely alone. well like he will grab me in places or touch me then when i go back to do it to his private area. he gets all giggly and shy and kinda pushes me away saying hes tickelish. well i mean i understand that cause so am i. but what do i do to get us more into the physical stuff. and im pretty sure hes a virgin i dont think hes lying to me. cause little things he does or says sounds so inexperienced. like he grabbed my boobs and asked why they felt like that and he didnt know boobs felt like that. idk i cant explain it. but i can just tell. well anyways how can i get us both way more super comfortable touching/rubbing/grabbing eachother in areas?! im searching for an apartment/house for us to move into once we get of age and first he told me why are you looking at 2 bedroom houses and now hes telling me too. idk if thats his way of saying just for more room or if he wants to have seperate rooms. i dont understand what can i do to make our relationship more interesting and fun with us getting more comfortable with eachothers bodies. and living together..we have spent the night together before and slept in the same bed if that helps anything but my babybrother was sleeping in the middle of us then on the side of one. and he always gives him more attention then he does to me whenever he is around. so someone please help me! (link)
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From what you say,I'm sure he is a Virgin 2. And if you are ready to give yourself to him then no one should come in your way. You can not always never be alone so I suggest you start mentally preparing yourself for that day.
And you must ask him straightout : 'I want to touch you, let me touch you'. Once you've done it once or twice and get the basics like how to pleasure him the way he wants to be pleasured.
Just ask him straightout, don't beat around the bush.
Also ask him if he wants more space in the house you're looking for.Thats the simplest way. Just say, " so baby, do you prefer a 3 bedroom, I am sure i'll be able to find one you like" or something like that.
And maybe he doesn't want to act sexual around your brother, I would have done it to, just to not arouse curiousity from your brother or akwardness between you 2.
Say whatever is troubling you! Talking does more good than keeping it all inside.
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So when i get erections if im around a girl i find semi attractive i always find myself trying to make it noticable to them. So my question is do girls find it arousing if they can see you have an erection? (link)
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I'm sure most of them get pretty embarassed. Just imagine if you were the girl, well you would try to get out of there as fast as you can. Unless she finds you attractive too and goes like, "like what you see" or some other chessy line...... but most will wonder 'what the hell your doing', 'is the for me?' or ' is he attracted to me..oh no!'
Well, I think you should take things slow with them and don't let them notice it unless you know they're attracteed to you 2.
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I have been with my husband for 12 years now. We've had some really great times but I've come to realize that he is more like a brother or a best friend to me. We aren't intimate much and we both seem to be satisfied with that. I don't feel any closeness between us that would indicate to me that our relationship was closer than brother/sister. I'm confused and am not sure what I should do? My feelings are strange and I'm beginning to worry about many things. I wonder if he still loves me and if he feels the same way about our relationship as I am beginning to. What do you think should go on? I don't have any idea on how to confront him about this situation. Should I consider divorce? (link)
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If you're feeling breathless and you want out, then consider it yah.
But I think you'll be more secure if you leave it this way. Not all marriages are based on intimacy.
Divorces are messy affairs.
Talk to him about it if it makes you feel better
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My boyfriend's 27th birthday is coming up in a few weeks, and I can't think of anything to get him. He has quite a bit of money, and I'm not sure what to get him that doesn't look bad.
I know he'll love whatever I give him because I gave it to him (Cheesey I know, but that's him to a T. I could hit him with a frying pan and he'd think it was cute.), but I really want to try and get him something he would use.
Any ideas or suggestions are gladly taken, believe me, I could use them. (link)
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Lol, Maybe a keychain, you know, I came across one of these pair keychains where one of them is shaped like a heart with a space in the middle and it has "I" space(in the middle) and "YOU"
and the other one fits into it like a key and had LOVE on it....
I'm sure if you looked around you could find something like that.
Or a sliver chain with something cool....like a lion with your intials....
He'll know it came from the heart no matter what you give him.
Make him a gorgeous card to go with it~!
I have alot of other suggestions because I make everything I give to people I love...
If you shape aluminum foil into a letter and cover it with gold string (embroidery works well) (just tie a knot at one end and warp it slowly around the whole letter and tie a knot at the other end)
and hang it from a black band, it'll look cool and masculine, I give one to my cousin, just make sure the knots are tight, make many if you have 2!
There are so many other ideas! Let yourself free and make not one but 3 or 4 things!
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what is an orgasimm?? what happens 2 yu wen yu have it??(dnt judge me!!) (link)
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God, I hope you're old enough for this......
Well an orgasm is when you've reached your climax after being pleasured or have interacted in sexual intercourse.
Nothing happens it's just that you've reached you're height, And you feel extremely satisfied.
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when you go on your own profile while youre logged on it doesnt really count to the 'profile views' right? (link)
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You're talking about here right?? Becuase it does, press refresh and check.
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iWant to be a modeL but i have no self convidence everyone tells me im beautiful but i dont see it. i was in a beauty pagent but i droped out bc i was Shy thats another problem im really Shy when it comes to meetinq new people and other people taken my pickturess . How can i change this. It is my dream to become ah model and when i qot in the beauty Pagent i was so happy but i chickend out when it was time for the show (link)
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Believe in yourself. Hold your head high and don't think of anything but how confident you are!
It'll work better for you since you're pretty, you have no reason to not like the world in the eye or shy out.
Practice in the malls or something, walking looking up, not down, thinking that this is the runway you'll soon be walking on!
Come on girl, we all know you can do this!
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My mom said thong panties caused yeast infections and bacterial infections in the vagina. She said I shouldn't wear them for long periods of time if I absolutely "had" to wear them so I wouldn't risk my health so much. Is this true? If so, why? (link)
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I really don't think this is true. I wouldn't be a first party informer cause I hate thongs as they're really uncomfortable and I don't wear them unless 'I really have to' But all my girlfriends wear them and nothing like that has ever happened.
Anyway, don't you think you would have heard something like that if it were true, what could it possibly cause?
But listen to your mom, she's only saying this for your own good, becuase she cares for you to worry about something like that.
Maybe she just thinks that it doesn't cover enough and wants you to stay away from it?
Anyhow, when would you really need to wear a thong??
Hope this helps, Good luck convincing your mom! (Hopefully have some satictics or graphs that prove that more than half the female popualtion wears them,lol)
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I had a long distant relationship that lastest 5 years and he lived in Boston, Massachusetts. This relationship has been over for 2 years now and I moved on 100%.
whenever I look at pictures of Boston.."City, streets, skyline" etc. I feel like I belong there..sort of like it's my home..my peace spot. I love the city and I want to go back and visit someday. It's really weird sort of like a "Dejavu" type of thing..although it's been 2 years since I have last been to Boston I feel like it's sort of a past life type of thing and If I go back I will fufill my happiness by being in the city again/
Why is this? (link)
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I guess it's really your peace spot, like germany is mine and it came about much in the same way.
What can I say? You were happy there, Knew he would be there, Know that he probably is still there. You understand? It happens, I'd make it your holiday place if I were you. Everything you feel is urging you. Don't fight it.
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I just broke up with my boyfriend on Sunday and through all the fighting and break-up and confusion there was this boy here at college to get me through the day. Even now he'll still text me almost everyday just to see how I'm doing. Just someone to check up on me and talk to. We met at orientation so I've known him for a while. Well after the break-up I developed a crush on this guy which hasn't surprised me at all. He reminds me so much of my best guy friend from home, and I'm physically attracted to him. We've hung out everyday since the break-up. Like from 7p-12am. He hangs out with my group of girls a lot and when we're in the group its just really casual conversation between us but then when we're in his room at night (with his roomate and everyone else who walks in and out of there) he's really sweet and flirty but he never really gets physical. Well sometimes he'll lean on me and other times he keeps his distance. Tonight we wrestled on his bed, obviously the most physical contact we've had so far. Yet I've only hugged him once.
I can't tell if he likes me or not. And if he does if he's waiting to make a move until he feels its long enough after the break up to do so. I'm not just going to kiss him unless I know he likes me. Because if he doesn't it would be incredibly awkward.
help! (link)
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You're doing the right thing, He's the sweetest guy going but things would go really awkward if he doesn't like you that way.
I lost one of my best guy friends this way except he's the one who made the first move. Things got bad, it was hard to talk without feeling weird or thinking about that moment and we hardly talk anymore unless we really have to because we're the 2 heads of our group.
Don't lose him that way, make sure x5 that he likes you first. Wait.
And if he doesn't, Better friend than nothing right?
Besides that, what a sweet considerate guy! You guys would be awesome together!
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I know this sounds really, really stupid but how do I clean the insides of my ears properly? I read on a Q-Tip box that you aren't suppose to insert the Q-Tip into the ear canal. How do you clean ears then if you cannot put the Q-Tip in your ear? I can't figure out another way to do it and I feel stupid! Can someone just explain this to me? (link)
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Huh? Well thats strange.
Well I would say wash your ears thoroughly while taking a headwash. Hot water, steam and shampoo/soap really makes your ears feel sqeeky clean.
I don't understand how your supposed to clean the wax out of your ears if you can't insert it into there though..... oh well.
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Okay this is a bit complicated! I have always told my wife that I am open to a threesome with another man if it would make her happy. When we first got together she mentioned the idea, sort of playfully, and I took it as a serious thought of hers. I let her know that if things were going to be completely open between us then I would consider such things. I guess I didn't think she was truly serious.
Anyway, the last discussion about this sort of sexual fantasy was a month ago and she said, "No! Absolutely not!" and that she is married and only wants to be with me. To be honest, I was quite relieved. I have no sexual desire for me and I would prefer my wife to only be with me.
Well, about 3 days ago, completely out of the blue, she tells me she found another guy she wants to engage in sex with. The catch is that she wants to have sex with this guy alone and without me present. She said she doesn't even want me to watch. Apparently, she used to know him but did not like him in any romantic or sexual way. I feel like she may be hiding some past secret desire to be with him, sexually, and is afraid I will "freak out" if she opens up and tells me the truth.
After two days of talking with me about this other man, she tells me she is just curious and that just kissing the guy and not even having sex with him would cure that curiosity. So, now she's taken it down a large notch and says that she no longer desires to have sex with this other man but wants to kiss him?
I have noticed her talking on the phone to "friends" more often these past few days. She ends the conversation when I come into the room. She has also come home two hours late from work yesterday, which is something that has never happened before. I feel like she is distancing herself from me.
What should I do? I am not really comfortable with this but I feel like the whole situation is my fault. I shouldn't have told her I would be open to other sexual things, I know, but I really wanted her to be happy and satisfied in our marriage. I don't know to "take that back" without seeming like a prick.
Yes, I want her to be happy. No, I don't want her to kiss, make-out, hook-up, or have sex with another man. I made a huge mistake. How do I fix this? If she kisses the other man, I'm going to feel crushed, but I want her to be happy and satisfied with me in this marriage. Please, help me! (link)
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Lol, threesome...hot...Sorry....
Well tell her that you are absoulutely not comfortable with any other man touching her. Now this is exactly as you said, partly your fault but remind her that she's the one who said she only ever wanted to be with you.
Simple talking should solve the problem.
Explain why you suggested it in the first place. No yelling please. And make her understand that you had no actual wish to carry it out, just to see her fulfilled.
If everything comes to everything, Tell her to kiss the guy and get it over with and fall back into a now more-passionate filled life, (on your side) If you don't ever want her to suggest anything like this again, I would say start preparing to give up a few extra hours of sleep!
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Years ago I heard about how cell phones caused tumors in the brain and other areas of the body where the cell phone had contact with all day. I heard that these tumors were not cancerous, for the most part though.
So, I got to thinking yesterday and am wondering if cordless phones cause this sort of problem too? I suppose they don't work in the same way as cell phones but I'm not sure if they interact with our bodies like cell phones do. Does anyone know? (link)
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No. Mobile phones emit raidation. The same cannot be said about cordless phones at all.
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