Question Posted Saturday November 28 2009, 8:19 pm
Female/17. OK. i have this older guy friend n i had a crush on him for awhile n he was crushin on me back. It just went back n forth. Now its back to us crushing on each other. When I finally kissed him, it was good. But a couple days later my best friend asked me if i had sex with him? I told her no, and she told me that he said that n was telling people we did!I was shocked. Cuz I didnt think he would actually do that. A few days later I confronted him about it, and he told me that my best friend was the one saying it!? So then I kinda believed it cuz she can be a b**ch. She has been one to me plenty of times. Then just recently I was talking to another friend n he told me that my older guy friend was the one that was saying it! I dont know what to do!? I feel like I just wanna be done with him. I dont know who to believe. Advice would be nice.
SeshLover answered Sunday November 29 2009, 11:53 am: Think about which one you believe more in this situation, and confront that person and demand the truth, If you're not entirely sure then Confront him and her at the same time. That should do it.
And if he is the one that is spreading the rumors, that guy is the lowest kind of guy.
I wish you the best of luck <3 [ SeshLover's advice column | Ask SeshLover A Question ]
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