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true love, i can never leave completely, and help
15/f
i have known this guy for about four years now, and we argued and fought all the time, but then this past summer, i completely fell for him! we were together all summer, and part of the year, we realized that we argued because we completely loved each other! he stole my heart, but we live apart, i know they say that distance never works and some say that distance brings people together, well we broke up because we only saw each other when i went and stayed with him for a weekend maybe one or twice a month. but we changed, and it was like there was a wall, but we still loved each other. the week next that we broke up, it was silence, but he pulled me on his lap like he used to, then this past weekend, i told him i still loved him, and he did that smile, and tease that he did, he told my friend he still cared, and had strong feelings for me, and he tried to sit, hug, love, and cuddle with each other. now all my feelings are ten times stronger, i have never been this connected with any other before, and hes in my head day and night, he looks at me like he still loves me and like he misses me, only im just afraid to lose him again, i miss him so much and love him with all my heart, if you have any idea how i should handle this and if i should just keep coming to see him, i don't think i could bare not to ever see him or not be with him again.....
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Theres nothing wrong in what you are feeling. Love is a natural part of our inner being however it can also let us act,behave and do things we our selfs have no clue in how to finish or do. One thing if anything that i will recommend you to do and that is to try and clear your mind in the argueing. You both may get frustrated in not being with each oither and that might be why you both argue however you really can be together with out arguing in other words it is not neccessary to get upset with each other because you cant be with each other. Instead get your selfs together (work) in solving the problem by talkign about diffrent subject plan s for the future together, careers, traveling and yes maybe even marriage and children. there are so many things you both can talk about to know more about each other. Keep you relationship clean from violence, fighting, abuse sex and so many things that can really hurt both of you. theres nothing wrong with spending time with each other but if you both begin a relationship with arguing and then loving each other it will cause alot of pain. dont let the pain become part of the relationship grieve together. theres nothing wrong in dissagreeing with what the other thinks or gives on opinion. They say that sometimes distance cures the wounds of love but if there is love then there should not be any wounds. I hope this helps
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