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What should i do?? my boyfriend...
Today I found out that my boyfriend of 6 months had broken up with me for some other whore. I asked who this lucky lady was and he would not reply. I went home from school early and crying my eyes out and in a way looking forward to my mom there to comfort me in this difficult time. but as i walked in the door i noticed my ex. boyfriends car parked out side, in exitement i was thinking he might be here to talk to me about "us" but when i looked around the house no one was home. so i was on my way to my room sadly because me and he had, had sex in there so many times, but as i walked in i saw my boyfriend and my mom having sex no i cant sleep in there any more.
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theres this thing called Blackmail. heres how it works:
don't stay in the house, stay at a friend's place, and write your mom a nice little letter.
the letter should contain something to the effect of "You have two options; I rat you and him out, OR, you give me (sum of money), (a car), (pay for an apartment for you to live in). tell her she has 48 hours to respond, or you'll notify her workplace, friends, family, police, your ex-boyfriend's family, etc."
don't make it too demanding, just enough to where you've got a roof over your head and a car.
blackmail is a bitch. a cold, cold bitch.
-Gunner
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omg I'm so sorry :(
first of all i just wanted to say if your boyfriend is a minor than I would go to the cops. this is not only disturbing of your mom to do but why would she hurt you like that? and in your own room?! sweetie he just isn't worth it your boyfriend has got some mental issues to be doing something like that with your mom. this isn't your fault this is your mom and your boyfriend that hasn't got there tools on right. i don't blame you for not being able to sleep in the room anymore I wouldn't either after I saw something like that. I wouldn't talk to your mom about it only because honestly I don't think she would care..I mean she didn't care about your feelings when she did what she did. Go to the cops sweetie this is not right
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Wow
I am very sorry to hear all this.
I can surely tell you that your boyfriend is not worth the time if he had gone as low as being with your mother or even seeing another person. If your boyfriend is underage than he can get in serious trouble and so can't your mother as having sex with a minor is statutory rape.
Obviously your mother had broken your trust, Your boyfriend also broke your trust. Not only is what your mother did was wrong but if he is a minor than it is clearly disgusting. As much as you are hurting right now realizing that he isn't worth your time is a step towards a healing process nobody who cheats, lies, disrespects someone in a relationship is worth the time. If you really want to get dirt on them, Than I would report it. If I were in your shoes...Mom or not I would report it again...not only is it wrong but what was your boyfriend including your mother thinking?! Take a deep breath, As much as things seem in the gutter it could be a lot worse. Try talking to your mother, Ask her why?..Tell her how it made you feel. If she even has any sympathy and respect for you at all than she will at least listen too you. However, I suggest talking to a close friend someone you know you can trust and won't turn their backs on you. A good mother would never even think of doing such a thing to hurt their own kid like that. I'm going to suggest seeing a therapist.
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Wow did you talk to your mom about this.. I would because thats some heavy stuff. How old are you btw is your ex-boyfriend as old as your mom. sometimes we just get connections we cant explain
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