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I want the relationship to work... he kinda doesnt or do OMG HELP!
Posted Monday February 22 2010, 2:11 pm
Hi i have been with my boyfriend for 7 years. We have a beautiful 1 year old son, have a home, and i love him to peices. We had an big argument and now becuase of over the course of our long relationship he feels liek the same things keep coming up and now he feels liek he cant put up with it anymore. he says it over. he loves me but he cant do it anymore. so im going to have to move out but im trying to figure out how to save this!?! i really really really want this relationship to work. i love him and want us to move forward and do all the great things we have set for our family. what can i do to try to get him to see that i am willing tomake the changes so that we can be great?!
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What happend with us???
Posted Monday February 22 2010, 11:38 am
My girlfrined (19) and I (19) have been fighting for a long time now. She is the one who has been driving us to where we hangout and stuff she does the hardest part of our relationship I think and recently she has been saying I act like a child. Now I do tend to be all childlike when I am around her but that is because all we ever do is hangout with my bestfriend and his girlfriend so I tend to let go and be carefree which she says I shouldn't do. Now I tend to call her too much and text her and stuff and its because i think she is not doing what she tells me she does but i know I'm wrong. She still talks to a bunch of guys that I don't like her talking to and it upsets me but she says I just need to trust her and give her space we have bee...
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Husband's female friends
Posted Monday February 22 2010, 6:36 am
So I've been married for a year and a half now. My marriage has been soo very difficult but has gotten a lot better. I have ALWAYS had insecurities with my husband and his female friends. I know this sounds wrong but I just didnt like it when he gave them too much attention, like I didnt wanna share him. The first year of our marriage he pampered my insecurities. He just flat out stopped talking to them, I never told him to but he just decided to do it himself. So for the whole year I was obviously happy with this desicion but as assumed he wasnt cause he says I treated him like he still did. He doesnt do this anymore, he talks to them now and i told him i didnt have a problem with it. But deep down it still bothers me. I never bring it up ...
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is he dropping hints to me that he still loves me and wants me back?
Posted Monday February 22 2010, 4:47 am
it has been nearly 2 months now since my ex-boyfriend broke up with me but just few days ago, i meet up with him for a gathering with our other friends (we had mutual friends). I did realised something from that day..
1st: i caught him looking at me for few times
2nd: he still plays with my hair like how he used to play with it when we're still a couple
3rd: i find that he still cares for me (eg: i was sitting at the corner and he voiced out to his friends why did they not asked me to join them when they were playing cards, asked me how am i going home later). but i was cool and not show him that i still have feelings for him, i act not to notice him when he said good night to me when i was leaving and i said good night...
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whazs up with him?
Posted Monday February 22 2010, 12:24 am
Hay well I'm having a problem with my BF ( boyfriend). He was always sweet and if he say he was going 2 do something he did it on time not a second late. But now he is still sweet but when he say Babe ill call you at 6 he don't get back till 9, and then he say O I had to take someone here then there, like I want to here that I just want him.
I myself asked him if he had time for a GF ( girlfriend ) and he tells me I'm the only one he wants. Nothings wrong with are relationship its just the facc that he never have time 4 me. We do have our moments and cuddle but sometimes we are interupted with a phone call or a knock at the door and then he has to go pick up granmal, but don't get me wrong I like the facc he cares about his fami...
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My boyfriend doesn't want to tell people we're going out...why?
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 11:56 pm
I've been dating my boyfriend for almost a full month now and he STILL wants it to be private. I want to tell my friends that I'm seeing him but he keeps saying how he doesn't want everyone knowing about our business so we should keep our relationship hidden. I, secretly, told my best friend and she said it isn't normal and that boys who don't want anybody to know about their girlfriends are ashamed of them or are seeing other girls. I really don't want to believe that but I cannot come up with any different thought about it. Why doesn't my boyfriend want anybody to know we're dating?
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M3N
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 11:05 pm
what are some signs that a guys into you... not just wants in your pants but actually likes you
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this girl
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 10:38 pm
there is this girl who is telling my bf to break up with me and date her!!!!!!! Grrr... and i wanna message her on myspace but i dont know what to tell her. I need some advice on this so tell me what to tell her , not what you think I sould tell her.Sorry to be mean but im really mad
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Rebound or Not
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 6:39 pm
So I've been in a relationship for over a year. We were very much in love, and then after a stressful semester at school, we started to fight alot. I was looking forward to winter break & rekindling our romance but I ended up breaking up with him because of one of the fights. He begged to come back to me and cried about how much he loves me and doesn't want this to happen, I didn't either because he's my world so we got back together. We ended up hanging out more that week and spending christmas together & then 2 days later he broke up with me, saying that me breaking up with him really did hurt, and all the nasty things I said to him rly affected him and I broke his heart. I was heartbroken too and we talked every few days but he s...
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Need to choose between two women
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 4:00 pm
Girl #1 is 20 years old, sexy, smart, ambitious, wild/spontaneous and is a 'country girl' if u will. I feel a connection with her and a spark when i am around her that i havent felt in a long time. But, she is very dramatic and is constantly angry at me 4 things which are either not my fault or are just blown completely out of proportion. every week she finds something else 2 b angry with me about that i really dont deserve and then she will treat me like crap for days, making me grovel at her feet. I really am the nicest guy on the planet and would do anything 2 make her happy, yet she constantly tells me that i don't care about her and am selfish. She has many emotional issues and is now seeking help so hopefully she will begin 2 c me for...
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I hurt him, he still likes me...I think I like him, too.
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 1:29 pm
Hi, 22/f, he's 28/m.
Background: I worked at a coffee shop. Andy is one of the regulars. We talked a lot, hung out a little, and wound up dating for a month when I was broken up with my long-term on-and-off mess/boyfriend, Mike. Because I was still addicted to Mike, I broke it off with Andy. He understood, and hated myself for doing it, but I had to. Leading him on would've been wrong...
More than a year later: I no longer work at the coffee shop, Mike and I are done, and I've started hanging out with the regulars again, including Andy. A bunch of us went to the bar last night, and he made it pretty clear that he still likes me.
He's a good man, he's intelligent, he's fun, he's respectful, we h...
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Does marriage ruin relationships?
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 1:24 pm
50% of marriages end in divorce.
What do you believe that the reason for this is? I mean, were the people not meant for each other in the first place? Did it just take living together for a while for them to realize that?
OR was what brought down the marriage, well, getting married? Are some couples super happy as boyfriend/girlfriend but the stereotypical expectations of a married couple get in the way? (i.e. the wife has to cook, care for kids, etc.; husband has to work)
i hope i'm making sense.
i just want some opinions on this :)
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...Dating...for the first time?
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 1:18 pm
Hey everyone, 22/f.
So, I recently got out of a shitty relationship with a guy (James) I'd been with for over four years. My heart hadn't really been with him for over a year, but we said our final goodbyes only last weekend.
This is gonna sound bad, but I'm already considering dating. Is it too soon? I think I'm past the point where I'm attracted to a guy because he's not James, and can see the guy for who he is, but there's still that fear that that's what I'm doing, y'know?
I don't know if I'm looking for a relationship right now as much as just getting to know some guys and having some fun (not like that...James kinda killed my sex drive).
Anyway. The kicker here is that I'v...
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Do guys prefer blow jobs or sex?
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 12:50 pm
Do guys prefer blow jobs or sex?
I know everyone's different, so giving examples from experience, etc. will do. I'm just curious.
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my boyfriend/smoking
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 12:32 pm
Me and my boyfriend haven't been going out for long but I realllly like him.I don't smoke anything (no cigs,no weed,etc) and he knows that and respects it. He does smoke weed though and he asked me if it bothered me (before we started going out) and i said it didn't bother me ,because it used to not bother me.Now it seems as though he took advantage of that and smokes ALL the time,probably everyday.I don't like how he acts when he's high,he's just not the same.He acts dumb and is just not normal (obviously because thats what smoking does to you...)He used to lie to me about when he did it because it bothered me but he stopped lying about it and does it all the time.I told him he doesn't have to quit but I'd wish he would just do it less.H...
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Good questions to ask your boyfriend! :)
Posted Sunday February 21 2010, 12:17 am
I am going out with this guy that is really sweet but I don't know much about him. He asked me for my number last weekend and we've gone out TWICE now and I don't really know a lot about the guy. My mom said we should not go to movies yet but, rather, out to eat so that we can talk more. I thought that sounded fine but I have no idea what I should ask him without sounding stupid!
What are good questions to ask my boyfriend and how do I ask them? Should I just say, "I have some things to ask you..." and go through them one by one? I don't want to look like idiot but I want to get to know him better! :)
THANKSSS
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22f in College-- Do I choose the rock star life or the settled life?
Posted Saturday February 20 2010, 9:32 pm
22F- I have a great boyfriend who I love dearly but I met this great older man (51) last summer and we had a fantastic time. He's wealthy and enjoys traveling and doing things that I want to try. I have been avoiding him but I'm being drawn back to his lifestyle since summer is coming up. He has a boat, helicopter, huge house, motorcycles... and he will pay for most of the expenses on whatever we do. I went on a trip with him and some of his friends last fall and had a fantastic time but I had to lie to my dad about it. My mom knew who I was with from the get-go but I didn't tell my dad the whole story until I got back. I know my parents won't be very keen on me traveling with the 51m and I don't know how to tell them that I want to try new...
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First Time Having Sex With My Boyfriend....
Posted Saturday February 20 2010, 9:17 pm
Well , me and my boyfriend have been together for almost a year . &+ He says he loves me and stuff, &+ He got a condom . He wants to have sex, and his birthdays coming up... But idk what to do? Im still kinda intimidated by us having sex. Its not like im scared . It's just im nervous to. Idk what to do or how to do it? Help !
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over her yet?
Posted Saturday February 20 2010, 5:16 pm
18/m. You've probabaly heard this story before, but oh well.
I broke up with my girlfriend a few weeks before christmas.We had been going out for 6months prior. I thought that the relationship was really not working out. She thought the same but she didnt want to break up. After breaking up, she was rather depressed, you could see it in her face, and was crying a few days after.
On christmas eve, we met up to exchange presents which we bought before breaking up, and had breakup sex (probabaly not a good idea now that i think about it).
Before we started going out, she liked this other guy, jack. So the other day, i found out (on facebook) that she's going out with jack. Im sort of feeling the ...
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i can't let go
Posted Saturday February 20 2010, 5:01 pm
me and my ex had a big break up which made us stop talking for a while we've dated for almost a year and he wrote to me saying that he still loves me and all so we kept talking and chilling i mean i still love him too but he gets mad at me for the smallest things then we stop talking AGAIN, he tells me he misses me loves me all the typical things a boyfriend would say but if he does why doesn't he ask me back out so it would make better sense of him telling me those things im juss soo confused about things i don't know what to do :/
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