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Rebound or Not
So I've been in a relationship for over a year. We were very much in love, and then after a stressful semester at school, we started to fight alot. I was looking forward to winter break & rekindling our romance but I ended up breaking up with him because of one of the fights. He begged to come back to me and cried about how much he loves me and doesn't want this to happen, I didn't either because he's my world so we got back together. We ended up hanging out more that week and spending christmas together & then 2 days later he broke up with me, saying that me breaking up with him really did hurt, and all the nasty things I said to him rly affected him and I broke his heart. I was heartbroken too and we talked every few days but he said he did not feel he's ready to be back with me because he's hurt. I understood and gave him space. Soon he started talking/seeing this girl from his grade school that recently got out of a long relationship too. He writes on facebook, "we will be romeo and juliet." and asked her out on Valentine's Day. Less than 2 months since we broke up. That hurt so bad. He deleted me from his facebook but still has ALL of our pictures together. Some of his defaults even have us hooking up & the caption is "love of my life <3" A few days ago I txted him telling him I was offended he deleted me, and told me that he never did, and thought I deleted him, but he has yet to add me back. He told me also "i dont think we're even together anymore" about him & the girl.I told him it was none of my business about the 2 of them because honestly i love him, i dont want him with some1 else. My friend told me she still sees they're in a relationship. I hope this girl is just a rebound, but its hard when he writes stuff like that, or when I asked him "Will we ever be the way we were?" he never wrote back. I'm losing hope, but after all the stuff he put me through I shouldn't even want to be with him, but my love was never temporary and I still do love him. Help advice!
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You don't deserve to be ignored and treated like
that by him he hurt you things weren't meant to be between you two everything happens for a reason you deserve someone better who will treat you with respect & who will treat you like your suppose to be treated nicely the best thing you can do is move on so it isn't bothering you the good thing is there are tons of other boys out there & you'll always have chances for relationships once your ready to date again(:
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You are broken up hun.
There is no gray zone, and no 'maybe we are, maybe we aren't' in this situation. You are completely and totally broken up, and he is seeing other people.
You will never be the way you were, and it's looking less and less likely that you will ever get back togeather. His silence and blocking means two things: One, he doesn't want to talk to you, and Two, he doesn’t really care too deeply how you are feelings at the moment.
Stop clinging to the incredabily small chance that he might look your way agian. It's time to let this go, take his silence as a blessing, and to make peace with not knowing the whole story. We NEVER know the whole story when it comes to a break up and an ex, but even without total knowledge there comes a time when you have to face the basic facts. He isn't with you. He isn't talking to you. He is with someone else. Nothing spells 'it's over' more clearly then that.
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